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Happy family rules
Briefly about the internal beliefs that, if you have and realize it, you can feel that you have done something worthy in this area of ​​life. The rules of a happy family. Spouses. 1) No matter what happens, we can always discuss it and find a solution. 2) Whatever happens outside, we will never stand against each other, but always back to back, or hugging each other. 3) We can be silent with each other or talk - we feel good in both cases. 4) We do not shoulder each other the problems that only one of us is predetermined to solve...
6 лет назад
Afraid of the new ... Or not afraid?
In life, we often go to places that are still unknown to us. And this process of getting out of the habitual into unusual new states is accompanied by discomfort, anyway. What are these new conditions? For example, one of your tasks is to earn a lot. If you have never had enough money, then you don’t know how it is to be rich. And you think it's easy to imagine being rich? Surely, when you think about it, you will not be twisted like a child. If in doubt, just try and track the sensations. Or you never spoke to a large audience - but I would like to taste the attention to the speaker...
6 лет назад
Unconditional love, or "Mom is bad!"
Unconditional love is one of the philosophical concepts familiar to many, but few realize that this unconditional love, or rather an unconscious sensation of its absence, determines many patterns of our behavior, emotions, negative feelings. Those who have children can easily remember the situation, and those who have no children can remember themselves in the role of a child: Mom scolded the child for something. The child became nervous and started shouting: “Mom is bad, go away, I don’t love you!”, Or he just ran away upset to another room...
6 лет назад
Psychotherapy of grief (part 1)
In psychotherapy of grief, the main thing is that the grief process is completed and remains in memory, no matter how strange it sounds, like a bright, albeit a sad event. Of course, an ideal option for perceiving the death of a loved one or animal would be a quiet and quick grief, based on only a violation of the habit of seeing a loved one next to you. This happens to people who, quite by no means just following fashion, realize that the soul of a person passes into the higher worlds, and there she is more than good...
6 лет назад
Psychology of bad habits
Each of our actions carries a certain state for us. And therefore, this is not at all “just an action”. This is a significant part of our life, which solves some issue. 1. - What do you feel when you smoke? - Feeling calm. It's like I'm falling into my world. Exactly the one that is mine. It’s calm there. - Are you in a hurry to go out with a cigarette during the break to get into your world? - Yes, there is tension at work, and when I smoke, I calm down. - Try to describe your condition in images...
6 лет назад
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