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Many of our notions of marriage, at best, were created by society decades ago. And most often much earlier in human history. Meanwhile, society is changing very quickly, the old rules stop working, and not everyone can develop new rules independently. To...

Injuries from our personality on an equal footing with a positive experience, and not always "for the worse". And, moreover, much earlier than many of us think. There is an opinion that months, up to 18 years old, all major injuries have already affected us. So, injuries are inevitable. This is part of reality! If you are ready to live in reality, be prepared to be traumatized and traumatized periodically. If you set a goal of "not causing injury", it is like setting a goal of "not living". By the way, even the goal of "not causing injury" itself traumatizes the child...

It happens that parents get mad at their kids with flip-flops, necklaces. And every single breakdown is a small disaster in which both the child and the adult need help. Vera Vasilkova, a psychologist, tells us what we need to know to avoid breakdowns and shares exercises that will teach parents to cope with emotions. Categorically call slaps and necklaces violence and say that it is impossible to say so - means to add even more guilt and pain in a difficult situation. What can we do about it? You can do it differently! There is something important behind any parental breakdown...

There are different types of thoughts and patterns that prevent women to leave their loneliness. Let's describe some of them. Accepted: "I never meet anybody" What's following this? It's true - she doesn't meet anybody. And she does not risk anything. She prefers to admit defeat without even starting to fight, and does not want to deal with potential dangers of acquaintance. Rejection, like armor, protects her from a complete lack of self-confidence. Her self-esteem is close to zero. What kind of...

If Mother so perfect that she's even arguing like she's taught in books on pedagogy. There are many stories about how parents were successful, were wonderful people and had great authority, and their grown-up children for a long time to collect themselves on the shards or looking for a place in the world. The fantasies of a perfect life are like pictures from Instagram. When there are no quarrels, everything is good and right. Mom knows how to treat. Mom knows how to love. She has ordered in her house, but they appreciate it at work...