What you need to know a man who chooses a girl who grew up without a father:
1. All other relationships will seem nothing if you love a girl who grew up without a father. This wonder woman will be cute Twitter at night, to please you with his laughter, it will fill your whole life, every corner of your room, the butterflies in your stomach will constantly fly from place to place, not giving you the opportunity to get out of a state of happiness. Your smile will Shine and infect others with happiness, cheerfulness, love will fill you to the brim. That means her energy has begun to consume yours; it intoxicates and quenches at the same time.
The girl who grew up without a father
The topic of this article, as always prompted, my professional life. Before the new year as having agreed, some young married couples came, at some marriage was estimated by several months. All came with a willingness to divorce. Everyone had the same problem — a girl who grew up without a father, who in her adult life tested her husband for the strength of the relationship to her, and waited for him to catch. All the girls declared their desire to break off the relationship.
Divorce in our time is commonplace, but few people think about how in the future will develop relationships with men, for example, a girl who grew up without a father. Many women decide to give birth, as they say, "for themselves". Psychologists know what problems they may have in the future in a relationship with the opposite sex. After all, they did not have a positive image of a man in the process of growing up. They had nothing to rely on as a model of the relationship between women and men.
What should a man know when choosing a girl who grew up without a father?
For women who were not brought up in a full family, and did not have sufficient contact with the father, building social and intimate relationships with men is often problematic. It is for this reason that many of them find themselves, for example, in conditions of cruelty or in several relationships within a short period of time. Girls are looking for a specific man-father, or the relationship as they believe should be between father and daughter, but they are looking for it in a man who should not be a father.
Many women do not know what it means to love a man. They expect love from him, they need protection, financial stability, and respect because this was not their childhood in their parents ' house.
That is why, when a girl meets a man who seems kind and attentive to her, she sees in him an opportunity to receive important values for her, which she never received from a man. For his attention and care for her, she begins to feel a FILIAL affection for him, which she often takes for love.
Strangely enough, many women growing up without fathers, despite the fact that they are waiting for a man, sometimes all their lives, with the appearance of a man in their lives, struggle for leadership in relationships, have a tendency to negative and disrespectful attitude to him. This is because they did not know what protection from men, and want to use, in their adult life, another man as a father. Sometimes they literally demand protection from everything and get angry at the man if he does not do it, or does not do as they expected.
Despite the fact that there may be a male defender, but he does not always do what she expects from him, a woman's self-esteem falls, that she herself becomes very vulnerable to any mismatch of expectations from him. The purpose of her life is lost at times in the beginning of the relationship, and she wishes to break. She believes that if it does not work as expected, it is better to be alone than in a relationship that does not meet her expectations, in which case she does not need a man at all.
2. A girl who grew up without a father needs a man's attention. She needs a lot of attention. We can say that all your time should be devoted to it. They want romance, submission, and worship. In return, they are willing to do much; to yield, to care, to feed, to water, to clothe, to fulfill your desires, if only you gave yourself to her and no one else. It's hard, but at first, the man is ready to perform all that it requires if only the butterflies in his stomach continued to fly.
3. A girl who grew up without a father thinks she is stronger than other girls because they were rejected by a man, sometimes from the first days of her life. They struggled with feelings of rejection all their years, and without a male figure in their lives, set an example to many that they should be loved, and always tried to solve the problem on their own. This aspiration made them independent and strong, and these qualities remained with them and near you.
4. A girl who grew up without a father is always wary when it comes to letting people into her heart, but if she did, she gave you her whole heart. They may look inaccessible, will look closely at you, because to give their unspent feelings is not so easy. They expect you to fully accept it and are ready to dissolve in you. In return, you will be required to do the same.
5. The love of a girl who grew up without a father knows no boundaries, it has nothing in between, it spreads like a river in flood. She is in love with the happy childhood she gets from a man. You're either in her life or you're not. When you entered, you can no longer live apart from her, she will not allow a drop of your love to pour out beyond your relationship. This will apply to everyone: parents, friends, ex-wives, children. A girl who grew up without a father can have trust issues. You must belong to her entirely. Only in this case, it will give you all the love of the world.
Men should know that the number one fear of girls who grew up without a father is to be rejected again, especially by those to whom she gave her heart. The emotional impact of an absent father in her life is lasting and will affect her adult life, especially building healthy ones relations'. The absence of a male father in her life has undoubtedly affected many areas of her life, including her emotional and sometimes physical health.
Well, if a girl who grew up without a father, will know that the absence of her father in her life can affect her life, and not the man to whom she gave her heart. If she can sort out her problems with men, she will be a wonderful wife, a loving mother. In any case, she can only solve problems herself.
As would not was profoundly sad this to realize, but many now, reading these the Premier, perhaps, saw its childhood and its pain in it. If you realized it, found the courage to voice it, then you probably have a resource to heal it.
A healthy You relationships, friends!