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Real monsters are the most inconspicuous
The anthropological image of Nastenka from the tale about Morozko is the image of the reference woman, to whom everyone should aspire and whom everyone should pretend to be. Modest, timid, tender, unpretentious. But the truth is that Nastenka from the fairy tale about Morozko is a fascist. A cunning and duplicitous woman who says what is expected of her to gain. In the fairy tale, she is positioned as a beautiful and gentle girl, full of virtues, the ability to tolerate and lie — the main of which...
5 лет назад
Why women are drawn to psychopaths?
Have you noticed that the series are literally Packed with characters with breakdowns in the psyche? And it's not about the villains, but about the main, quite nice to us heroes. Why do we love psychopaths and what they are in everyday life? We know for a fact that Dexter and Rodion Meglin of Method are serial killers. So what? We like both. The extravagant Holmes, played by Benedict Cumberbatch, says without a trace of embarrassment: “I Am not a psychopath, but a highly active sociopath.” And yet he has a sea of fans...
5 лет назад
I hate my body...
This is a collective image from different stories of completely different girls. I combined it for greater brightness, and that this collective image was able to touch different souls. And although it is written in the first person, it is not my story, although it has my "pieces". I hate my body. Since childhood, it brings me only disappointment and trouble. When I was little, everyone was taller and I was teased for being short. I remember asking my mother how you can grow up fast, and my mother joked that you should hang on the bar upside down...
5 лет назад
When a woman's support can interfere with a man
"If you want to help me, stand back and do not interfere," — is sung in one song. That's wise. As it turned out, trying to support his life partner in a difficult time for him, we can only push him away. How does this happen and how to act correctly? Let's say your loved one is in a bad mood. Maybe someone had an argument or a long-awaited improvement is not given, or it was just a long day. A natural reflex of a good wife or girlfriend to support, to help, to comfort. How else? In us, the instinct...
5 лет назад
What are the mistakes of strong women
The word "strong" I take in quotation marks because there is no such force in the world that someone could prevent. It's not the power that gets in the way of women, but what they take for it. I will try to explain by example. (Examples until not concern marriage, and concern simply novels). "Take it in stride» Often women think that taking the initiative is a strength, and passively waiting for the initiative from another is a weakness. Therefore, when they invite a man somewhere or persistently let him know that they like him, it seems to them that they behave like strong women...
5 лет назад
How I left my husband
I think everyone who complains about stability, just don't understand his happiness. That's how people are made. While on maternity leave, I wrote tons of letters about my unhappiness. Why I can't turn my mother off 24 hours a day, and the worst thing is, it's gonna happen now. I don't have a choice anymore. And in the forefront always only their interests-two my Until. I'm next on the list. Just because I think it's the right thing to do. I can drop the farm and go to the gym. But to score beautifully...
5 лет назад
About the female essence
Where do happy women come from? Why one all, and other nothing? Why have some in life a host the flow of men, only choose, and the other, with very modest requests raze not can withdraw married?"There are many questions of this kind. But all of them can be summarized in one answer. A woman is not in the flow, she does not accept her femininity, her nature. She probably didn't know it, didn't know what it was. As a rule, these are the consequences of generic programs that are passed down from generation to generation...
5 лет назад
How to stop following in social networks for the former
It's just awful. Morning begins with viewing "his" pages, that a new, that he there wrote in his hot delirium, whom and where "liked" — tells me, girlfriend, – during the workday I several times t on "his" page, to watch, when he the last time went in-network. And on the evening begins most interesting, then would I nor was busy, I necessarily, that a new have him, what new photo, then of walking on page his lop-cheeked fools-wife, which is photographed immediately and in all poses with great and dog and think...
5 лет назад
When the development of femininity will not help
Recently, a lot of watching the motives of those who are looking for female development. And came to this conclusion: many girls and women (not all!!!), who comes to "femininity" have a main goal — the struggle with their failures and lack of success. This very failure can be of different "types". Someone can not meet the right man and create a relationship, someone has the same relationship is not as we would like, someone can not find themselves and their place in this world, someone wants to see her husband successful...
5 лет назад
How to improve a girl's self-esteem
I once counseled a girl with extremely low self-esteem. She had always thought of herself as plain, with a pale appearance, too thin, and thin hair. Plus, her boyfriend just dumped her. She wrote that he was always shy of her. Never introduced with friends and colleagues at work, in social. she was not announced as his girlfriend. Of course, she resented it. Because of the hard breakup, her self-esteem was below the plinth, and the first place she needed to focus all her energies was to increase her confidence in herself, her appearance, mind, beauty, and talents...
5 лет назад
He left? Have a nice trip!
Is it necessary to return the man, if he left? Paradoxically, if you want a man back, you have to let him go completely, and then, if this man is destined for you, he will come back someday. Here is he, still yesterday such a favorite and native is gone! What to do? First of all, try to discard emotions, immediately, of course, it will not work, but after crying for a couple of days, pull yourself together and analyze the situation. Immediately after the breakup, you have an irresistible desire...
5 лет назад
Later children
Over the past decade, the number of women choosing to have children after 40 has doubled. Increasingly, they seek to first get an education, build a career, open a business, and only then to experience the joys of motherhood. Boris Tsivyan, one of the leading gynecological surgeons of St. Petersburg, told about the pros and cons of late labor. Live to be 100 years old – The life expectancy of people in developed countries updates the historical records. According to the latest data from the European...
5 лет назад