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The apple never falls far from the tree? There are plenty of examples: children are completely different from their parents. Parents are workaholics and children are lazy. The mother is head over heels in debt, and the son is thrifty. Casanova's father, and his son is monogamous. Psychologists say: do not try to educate with notations, children will still unconsciously imitate you. But not everyone imitates, do they? Some, on the contrary, swear: "I will never live like my parents." Whether you like it or not, you will believe in fate, in karma, in some kind of internal energy that either pushes a person to actions and activities, or makes him lie prone on the sofa. And the parental example is only 10% of the general factors of personality formation. Two varieties of apples from one tree My mother studied in the same class with a girl who became one of the largest businessmen in the city, owned several organizations. The daughter and son of this woman studied with me in the class. And what did I see? The son is excellent pupils and clever, and the daughter spent her days behind garages with high school students. 20 years later - he has a career, an apartment in Moscow, and his daughter still lives in the provinces, in complete disarray. How can this be explained? What makes some people take their will into a fist and reach for the light, while others give up on everything, spend their parental savings and sink to the very bottom? The veil of secrecy was opened by the wif

The other day I read a note about the young Tik Toker Dan Milokhin. The paradox does not fit into the head of the older generation: how can one make huge money in a couple of years, in fact, doing antics and buffoonery on the Internet. Those who are worthy of money are selfless highly qualified specialists in their field - doctors, teachers, engineers. Not singers, footballers and clowns. Big money is not always a boon and an indicator of talent. This is a terrible punishment for a person. Few succeed in holding them in their hands, generating over the years. It takes a powerful intellect to keep the bar. And our stars, especially new ones, lit up and went out. The woman wrote the following comment: “I feel sorry for this boy (Milokhin). He is an orphan, close people, he has no support. everything worked out well for him. " Tik Tokers do not promote themselves, they are backed by a team of professionals. "Not a single miracle can surprise more than two weeks" - they say in the East. Modern show business is a conveyor belt. Today they listen to you and look at you, you have a contract and money. Nobody wants to know about you tomorrow. Getting used to fame and popularity is a snap. How to get used to the lack of interest? How to pull yourself together and go to work for a small salary? This is the real test. The more I delve into the topic of raising children and the generation as a whole, the less I see any logical relationships. There is a saying, folk wisdom: "A goat w

"Grandfather's Granddaughter" Agnia Barto All young Moscow walks to school in the morning, People repeat verbs and compound words. And Klava-student in the morning rushes in the car Along the Garden Ring straight to the school porch. The gray-haired teacher comes to classes on foot, And Klavochka is in the car. And for what reason And by what right does Klava's car drive? - I am a grandfather's granddaughter, my grandfather is a Hero of Labor ...- But the granddaughter is a white-handed woman, and that's the whole trouble! She sits, bored and putting her notebook aside, But he wouldn’t think of serving a cup of tea to grandfather. But he will ask his grandfather: - Will you give me a car? I'm going to the skating rink! ”“ And he’ll call the garage. It happens sometimes - all the people are amazed: The hero grandfather has idleness

The veil of secrecy was opened by the wife of the singer Oleg Gazmanov. She brought her 17-year-old daughter Marianne to a bohemian event - the Tatler Debutante Ball 2021, and spoke about how unbearably hard the life of children from wealthy families is: “On the one hand, it seems that these girls have a brilliant life. This is true. Their vital needs are resolved, security is provided. But these girls should immediately start into self-realization or even a mission. This is a heavy load. Because from such a height it is very fast to fall. The bar has already been set. The monomakh hats of their parents hang over these girls, and not everyone can stand it. Because they are constantly being compared, they say that nature rests on children ... " It's funny to read our celebrities crying. Failing a mission, in my opinion, is not as sad as not knowing how to feed the children or how to pay the rent. Maybe this is their children and relaxes? Well, it failed, that's okay. Don't cry, go to the Maldives. It’s not a matter of monomakh hats, not of inflated expectations of parents. The real mission of everyone is to make a person out of himself in spite of the initial data, in spite of poverty or wealth, education and upbringing, in spite of the available opportunities or their lack. It is important to win the battle with yourself - with your laziness, with your cowardice. And it doesn't matter who you are - a girl from Lobnya or Gazmanov's daughter. So the poetess Agnia Barto wrote