Relationship secret

Finding the right partner Learning to communicate as a couple Remember that it is easy to clarify a problem when it arises, especially if it is based on a misunderstanding, while it becomes more and more complex if you or your partner stir too long on an issue that could be dealt with right away...

But how many really want to find a solution? I am not able to work on problems, but only on solutions. Every time I point out a problem, I only need to understand and highlight which is the best solution to solve it. So, you who are reading this post, ask yourself in a sincere and transparent way: "Do I follow Mike to let off steam and pity me or to change things once and for all?" This is the question you have to ask yourself and only if you answer "I'm ready to get involved to get what I want" are you the woman I'm talking to and I'll keep talking to...

Lack of self-confidence systematically leads you into the arms of the wrong men. It makes you believe you don't deserve better. It makes you think that in the end, it is right to be satisfied. It makes you imagine a disappointing life because the best is not possible for you. In short, it's a huge problem. And cumbersome. It's a ball and chain, a boulder that many, too many women carry around for years. Sometimes, forever. It's that weight you feel inside, that brings you to unexpected melancholy and sadness...

I'll give you three simple suggestions to be able to do this effectively:

This is the first thing you need to understand if you want to have any chance of a successful relationship. I'm not here to be a male lawyer, on the contrary. Let's be clear: there are men who wouldn't even deserve to speak to a woman, let alone have a relationship. But it also happens vice versa. Surely your task, first, is to recognize them and eliminate them from the options available — or from your life if, by chance, you already have to deal with one of them (in Find the Right One I explain how to do it)...

You're working hard, you like each other... in short, are you together or not? Here, to this question, he answers you what you do not want: “I'm not ready for a relationship, let's continue, if you want, to hang out without commitment”. Ow, ow, cold shower. 1. accepts, for fear of losing what has existed until then and hoping within herself that he will change his mind. 2. is angry or saddened by torturing himself to understand why. But don't worry. Let me explain to you what to do in this situation...

Even today, we do not know exactly. Of course, compared to a hundred years ago, our knowledge has improved a lot, especially with regard to psychology and neuroscience, but there is still no one who knows for sure the meaning of a life in which we are born, live and die. Of course, religions, with different perspectives, try to guide the human being with philosophies, spirituality, and dogmas. But who is not religious? Well, I don't think it's useful to explain to you how being religious or not makes a human being better or worse...

How did it feel after yet another fight over misunderstandings and communication problems? Have you ever wondered if there really is a definitive solution to all this? Well, in this post I try to give you an answer. Let's start from the basics: in a couple and in life problems are part of the game. “But I don't want problems”, “But it's difficult”, “But it's tiring”, “But why?” Okay, whatever “but” comes to your mind, eliminate it instantly or surrender to a life of grief in which you will complain...

Do you prefer that your faults define who you are or do you want to be the one to decide in which direction to go? That's the question you have to ask yourself. Damn it, so it's complicated! Yes, it is. So I want to give you a little simple practical advice to start thinking and acting differently...