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1 Nowadays, people are in a hurry and are eager to get married. There are only two kinds of opposite sex in the eyes. They can get married and can't get married. It seems that if you get married, you can do it. I don't like this kind of love with marriage purpose. It is not necessary to marry a person before he talks with him. I like it slowly, isn’t it? I always feel that the feeling of slowly falling in love is very stable, very comfortable, and slowly understand, you said that the moon under...

01 No one will spoil you unconditionally. In essence, everyone has a picture. Only some people need substantial returns. Some people are satisfied if they can love someone with their heart. 02 I don't want to be known by anyone about your relationship. The subtext is: I don't plan to be with you for a long time. 03 The confession was rejected, the overwhelming reason is that the other party does not see you. 04 Those who say that they have calmed down for a while, will basically not be together...

1 Do you have such a mentality that whenever you want to make something that you have been waiting for a long time, you always want to be encouraged, recognized, and supported. But often what you want to do is usually not optimistic about the public, so in a questioning voice, you silently give up. But wonderful people can walk alone through a path that is not recognized. I remember three years ago, I had a friend who decided to resign and start a business in a foreign country. At that time everyone opposed him...

1 The pain of leaving your own patients or relatives is real, and other pains are brought to you by your own values. 2 I can't read the book, impetuousness and anxiety, all because of the age, the unreliable righteousness and too heavy utilitarianism. 3 The people who really stick to the end are not passionate, but just the right kind of love and investment. 4 It is much more important for a person to understand what he can do than to do what he wants. The former needs to set a realistic territory for himself...

3 What are the consequences of this kind of domestication with good for love? First, excellence becomes a kind of self-forcing. From the psychoanalytic school, the way we interact with our parents in the early years will be internalized into our future personality. That always reminds our excellent parents that they will turn into our inner voice. Appear in many scenes to remind, spur, and judge us. A reader gave us a message: Once she accidentally messed up a small thing at home. Husband and children...

I have been in the psychological industry for a long time. The more books I read and the stories I hear, the more I discover them. The original sin of many inner problems is a strict self-requirement of paranoia: Be good, be good, don't make mistakes..... In order to meet these requirements, some people are paranoid, some are depressed, and some are divided. So I often encourage everyone to relax in the article: Not good / not good / wrong, it doesn't matter. But many friends read it, very confused: Obviously there is a relationship...

People with higher levels, they know how to feel empathy and empathy, knowing that everyone is not easy and know how to respect others. 1 Italian illustrator Marco Melgrati has created a painting based on realistic themes - "You never know who to play with you!" Why are really good people respecting others? The cat in the picture regards the snake tail as a rat tail, and grasps the snake's tail with claws without fear. The significance of this painting is: You never know who is playing with you, respect everyone, and don't easily despise and underestimate anyone...

Most newcomers, in the first three years of work, do not see much difference. But the experience of these three years is crucial for the foundation of their future career development. 01 The company recruited many new humans who graduated from undergraduate and postgraduate studies. The average age is 25 years old. The new assistant was a girl I personally recruited after many interviews. Graduated from a prestigious university with a bachelor's degree, is smart and lively. In private, I have to...

10% of your life is made up of what happens to you, and the other 90% is determined by how you react to what is happening. In other words, if you do something wrong, you may need to do 9 things to make up for it. If you chase the mistake, you will be farther and farther. If you want to change yourself, please never do the following 20 things for yourself: 1. Don't entangle with rotten people Chou Gulping said that life must have a weaker wisdom. Often compete with the same good, not short with the fool...

1. Fear of change, no courage to stop loss in time. Either indulge in the glory of the past, or succumb to the stability of reality. Only once in life, life is short and embarrassing, and listening to your inner voice can live a life that is not abolished. 2. Only accept fragmented information, without systematically combing and thinking. Passively accept a lot of information, but do not think for themselves, do not form their own views, and enrich their own hearts. 3. Procrastination, procrastination, procrastination...