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Healthy family relations (continued)
Blame the "accused" because he is at a very HEALTH moment when he needs to go away. Because, by moving away from the relationship at a distance, the person returns again and the cycle repeats again. ⠀ A cycle of relationships: ⠀ Now, look at the pictures of this and previous publications. Look, both semicircles are connected and form a circle. But tomorrow I will put out the next post. What will become with them? It certainly will be disconnected! But for a while...
5 лет назад
Healthy family relationships
The relationship between a man and a woman is cyclical. And this is the norm. It's a healthy cycle, however, you might think otherwise. ⠀ Two opposing people together. At first, euphoria, passion, strong attraction, fusion in each other. A couple, as if in the same capsule. Then comes the cold. People start to be little by little present in their own world of "loneliness with borders". ⠀ But that doesn't mean it's time to break up. On the contrary, it is important to be able to live with a person in the same area, to step aside a little and leave alone for a while...
5 лет назад
A letter to a psychologist
"Sykolodgy, hello! I can't wait to get an appointment, so I'm writing again)) Just to be clear, I'm gonna start with the backstory. On your recommendation, I slept well today, got up with a fighting spirit. In the morning there were a lot of things planned. I wanted to finish before lunch. Having finished the part, I wanted to sleep again. But forcing myself, I continued to work, but without any enthusiasm. After a while, the headache began and had to slow down at first, and then postpone the work altogether...
5 лет назад
Trust
A psychologist, like a medic, takes an oath of confidentiality. This means that we must keep the information expressed by the client confidential from other ears and eyes at 👁 👂 🙈 ⠀ Trust! That's the main thing and fragile in psychology. Without which there is little that will happen. The client reveals to me, telling his innermost and wounding things, in the hope that this information will remain between us...
5 лет назад
Feel the body.
Every night one man calls his wife: "Honey, I'm in a bar, I'm tired at work, my head is cracking, I'll be back by twelve...". At this time, a woman, gaining a bath with foam, shouted at the children: "Give me at least an hour to rest!". These people are united by body fatigue. But not physical. They have an overloaded brain and are trying to relax. However, these unconscious ways do not help for long. Friends, now try to turn away from the outside world and listen to your body...
5 лет назад
Guilt.
"I'm a bad parent" Baby stuff is one of my favorite topics. Because people have too many false stereotypes about what mom, dad and family should be like. I often hear people say that they are not as good as the others, because they cannot play well with their children. I want to ask the question "do you have to? To be a good parent is not to be loving. In fact, our "love" kills children. Like in a joke. - Son, go home. - Mom says. - That I'm already hungry? - No, darling, you're already cold...
5 лет назад
Personal boundaries.
This post was born in Yerevan. One day the elevator broke down in the house and, descending the stairs, saw the door open. In Armenia, it is a cult - open doors, neighbors, coffee... They enter the house without invitation. They pass through the carpets in the street shoes, into the hall, where the perfect cleanliness... for guests. Who evaluates the hostess during coffee-drinking - how cleaned, prepared, laid out and even how the laundry hangs! For guests it is a rating, what kind of daughter-in-law, wife, mother, etc...
5 лет назад
How do you know you need a therapist
The word "psychology" is pronounced the same way as my "sykolodgy" account. It's the same. But the first one is grammatically correct, and the last one is not. This is how it happens with a visit to a psychologist. Everyone is waiting for a clear deviation. So strong and noticeable that it is not difficult to diagnose any person...
5 лет назад
How I got into psychology.
My path to psychology was very long. In my deep childhood, I wanted to become a doctor. But as soon as I imagined how many relatives I would have to treat for free... Oh, God. This idea quickly disappeared from my mind at 😆 Well, seriously, it wasn't the body that wanted to heal, it was the soul. In essence, I love to communicate with people. It is not difficult to get acquainted with a person in seconds and learn about his life almost everything, starting with the hospital 😉 Of course, it's nice when people trust me...
5 лет назад
Let's get acquainted!
The first thing you see when you meet me is a big smile. Some people don't understand, but it's probably our family's calling card. We are all a little crazy. I'm sure if you know me personally or my family, you can imagine what it's all about And I also have the downsides and the pros, just like everyone else: + I adore children. I don't even know how many children I have to give birth to to in order to give myself a stop signal. + she's in love with psychology and she's reciprocating. + I know...
5 лет назад