Psychology blog

Everyone needs a place where they feel safe and secure. Everyone is looking for a place where they can relax and be themselves. Ideally, it should be a parent's home. If we felt loved by our parents, if they accepted us as we are, we had a warm family. And what to do if the memories of childhood do not warm up, but traumatize? PRIMARY TRUST TRICKS A child's sense of acceptance and love transforms us into a fundamental attitude of life that accompanies us in our adult lives: we feel safe in the world around us...

Https://i.Pinimg.Com/564x/3c/cb/2f/3ccb2fbc08bdaacbebcfaab333c2e543.Jpg On a powder keg Why do people need such strong emotional self-activation/self-stimulation? Is there any sense in these "storms in...

Https://i.Pinimg.Com/564x/40/7d/44/407d449681d50d11a5533eb4816790dd.Jpg Probably, many parents are familiar with the situation when their child suddenly begins to "freak out": loudly shouting, running and jumping, throwing toys...

Depreciation is a psychological protection that protects a person from too much emotion. Sometimes it literally sucks all the joy out of a person's life and blocks any personal development. I will tell you how it happens in one example. A client came to me once with a very common problem. She reported that she does not get any joy from anything in her life. She wasn't happy about nature walks, no fun, no sex, no family relationships, no money, no other things. As she put it, "I feel like I'm watching some uninteresting movie...

The psychology of the victim is a psychological attitude that is characterized by a passive attitude to events in a person's life. A person with this attitude does not control his own life, does not accept responsibility for what is happening to him, in his picture of the world there is even no possibility of an active life position. Accordingly, such a person does not have the skills to defend his interests (they are not formulated). There are no skills to plan and implement their own future. What...