High life

People are always depressed about their vocabulary. Https://pixabay.Com/ru/photos/%d0%b4%d0%b5%d0%b2%d0%be%d1%87%d0%ba%d0%b0-%d0%b0%d0%bd%d0%b3%d0%bb%d0%b8%d0%b9%d1%81%d0%ba%d0%b8-%d1%81%d0%bb%d0%be%d0%b2%d0%b0%d1%80%d1%8c-2771936/ This is how it happens...

The voice determines the speaker's identity. If we are happy, sad, in a hurry, confident in ourselves, the voice is the main indicator of our condition. How does the voice so clearly reflect what is happening inside the person? In the course of our evolution, certain parts of the human digestive and respiratory systems have adapted to the production of speech, creating our speech apparatus. However, since this apparatus is generated by our body, any physical or emotional problems will immediately affect our voice...

Loudness You must learn to control the volume of your voice. You don't have to shout when you talk to one or two people; this can cause them to get irritated and resisted. Similarly, you should not whisper in front of a large audience because it will be difficult for listeners to understand you and, as a consequence, they may lose interest in you. However, always try to speak a little louder than necessary because it will demonstrate your interest and enthusiasm for the topic of the conversation...

As a rule, objectivity and clarity are not the best friends. If you need to clarify what you are talking about, it is best to show the illustration. A story, fictional or true, will help listeners better understand the information. But stories are almost always long and can take more time than the information we want to bring to the attention of listeners. So if you want to remain objective during your presentation, tell only the stories you really need. If you decide to do so, look for concrete examples that are shorter and help to strengthen your arguments...

Saying all that is necessary, only what is necessary and nothing else is a difficult task, but we must always strive for it. When a person has mastered the art of speech and learned to control his actions, and the audience reacts positively, he will be satisfied. What is objectivity and how to use it during a performance Contrary to popular belief, speaking objectively is not the same as speaking little, although those who speak objectively usually know how to be concise and keep their mouths down...

To improve your listening skills, remember a few simple rules. The results will be excellent. Try to understand before interpreting or criticizing The starting point for improving the hearing is to avoid interpreting and criticizing the message before the speaker finishes his or her speech or before you understand it. The first few attempts may discourage you, because the final result may be significantly different from what you originally expected, and the hearing may not be a hundredfold effort...

I know it's not always easy to listen, sometimes we get so annoyed that we want to use earplugs to protect ourselves from verbal slaughter. Over time, we get so tired of such performances that we take the path of generalization and defend ourselves against almost everyone who wants to talk to us. For this and many other reasons, people don't really know how to listen. Recent research has shown that we usually use only 25% of our listening skills. A study by Larry Barker found that if the communication was very good, in two months people will remember 25% of what they heard...

You're asking people to pay you some attention, and... nothing happens. Then you ask again, "Please give me a moment of attention." In return, you will see a few raised eyebrows and the looks of the listeners, which are very similar to the drowsy fish that come to you. Before you are an army that sleeps peacefully in its barracks at night. None of them care about what is happening now, and only one person is interested in it - you yourself. If during your performance the spectators behave like an army after the end of the war, it's time for a revolution...

It is usually the audience that determines how you should express yourself. When you speak, you need to be sensitive enough to understand what the audience wants. You will also need to be able to adapt the content of your speech to the tastes and needs of the audience. Skill in the broadest sense is the ability to tell people what they want to hear, but in a way that they will eventually do what you want them to do. In expressing your ideas, you should try to identify which ones are the most effective...

They say a gentleman should never tell a woman that he's already heard the joke she told. We can add that the gentleman should not say that he has heard the joke anyway, even if the joke was told by a man. We can go on and say that a gentleman should never tell a joke if there is even the slightest chance that anybody in the audience has heard it. It's a very painful feeling of shame when someone starts telling us a joke and we realize they're with a beard. To be polite and not to hurt the narrator's...

The presentation does not begin at the speaker's rostrum. Even before you make your first sentence of your speech, listeners will follow you closely. They will read your reactions while you wait your turn to speak, guess by your gait, you are embarrassed or self-confident, and will even consider how you dress for the occasion. Audiences tend to be sensitive to observe the behavior of a person who intends to convey a message to them. Before you start talking, take a good look at your surroundings, but demonstrate your sincere interest in not looking like a diva...

Your memory will always be of great help to you. It will be necessary to remember ideas, the order in which they are presented, and the right words to help you convey your thoughts and put them in the right form; to reproduce metaphors, images, drawn from life, and invaluable for your presentation; and to remember numbers, dates, statistics, and mathematical data that confirm or clarify what you have said. Although the importance of memory is not discussed, you cannot rely entirely on it. Sometimes,...