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Interview with the employer, six steps to success
What to do for a beginner if the employer has invited him for an interview. The first step: Listen to yourself and decide on the field of activity you are interested in. If the option under consideration is appropriate, set your consciousness to a positive one. Unproductive thoughts such as: "This is a formal invitation, they probably have their own person. Who needs me? Who will take me?", inspire uncertainty, cause confusion, reduce motivation to look for a job. The second step: Prepare the necessary...
5 лет назад
Does the kid have a lot of bad dreams? What to do? Part 2
Why does a child have bad dreams? After falling asleep, the child is in the initial phase of drowsiness, which gradually flows into a deep sleep. After an hour and a half, there comes a phase in which the child's psyche forms dreams, positive or negative. The child sleeps for about 20 minutes, not all night. In the final phase, any external and internal stimuli can lead to the creation of certain images. During the night's rest, the unconscious part of the psyche takes control of the mind, which,...
5 лет назад
Does the kid have a lot of bad dreams? What to do? Part 1
Both adults and children have unpleasant or terrible dreams. But for children dreams and reality are often difficult to distinguish. The problem of night fears in children begins to appear at the age of two, and from 3 to 5 years, it is felt especially strongly. Approximately 12 years of age, the problem often goes away completely. The fact that the child has terrible dreams can be concluded by the intensity of muscles in his sleep, changing the usual posture, covering with a blanket with his head,...
5 лет назад
Ways to react to stress, “horse” or “turtle”
There are types of people who differ in the way they react to stress. Hans Seller called some “racehorses”, others “turtles”. People of the first type feel like “fish in water” in stressful situations, they live and are happy only in the fast rhythm of life, they love the thrill. Another type of person (“turtles”) strives for peace, silence, stability, dimensional. Modern scientists have proved by means of the ideogram method that during the nervous overexertion of the internal secretion glands a large number of hormones, namely adrenaline, and noradrenaline, are thrown into the bloodstream...
5 лет назад
I'm a woman.
I'm a woman, which means I'm the keeper of the family, the children. I am a woman who creates and protects my space. I care about family health and harmony of the world around me. I am weak, but I can cope with almost all the challenges I face in my life. After all, I am Russian and I have experienced all the upheavals and cataclysms with my country. I lived through years of stagnation and perestroika, I guarded my family in the cruel '90s. I wasn't knocked down by default or cynicism of terrorism,...
5 лет назад
Settings that block happiness
There are certain psychological obstacles that limit the possibility of one's own development and hinder the building of effective relationships with people. Psychologists call such attitudes of consciousness "blocking". Let's look at some of them: 1. To be good for everyone, this attitude is unreasonable, because no one can satisfy all people at the same time. What one likes is annoying to others. There is no better way to lose your independence and self-confidence than by constantly wanting to earn the approval of others, to be good for everyone...
5 лет назад
Why do kids cheat? Part 2
The child steals and lies - keep negative emotions to yourself again. Stay alone with your child. Give a negative assessment of his actions, but remind him that you are not going to fight with a man you love very much. Describe the consequences, tell us how upset can be the one who lost a thing or money, how his plans are now destroyed. Discuss the situation as much as possible, encourage the child to talk: they should see that they want to hear what they have to say. If thefts and lies are repeated, be patient...
5 лет назад
Why do kids cheat? Part 1
Understanding when a child is not telling the truth is usually quite simple. The child doesn't look you in the eye, sometimes his or her hand reaches out to your mouth or touches your face, coughs or rubs your ear. Another characteristic gesture is hiding your hands in your pockets or putting them behind your back. Lying to a child shows a lack of trust in the parents. The more "dangers" and prohibitions the more embarrassing it is, to tell the truth, the more tricks you need to come up with. These are quite natural causes of children's lies...
5 лет назад
I choose the rainbow.
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5 лет назад
What's a man's wife for?
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5 лет назад