THE FEELINGS BETWEEN US

Today we know that men and women, of identical intelligence and ability, differentiate themselves above all in the field of social sensitivity and especially in the erotic field. A difference that does not depend on the type of differentiated education for men and women but that has a genetic basis, the gender differentiation already takes place in the embryo. The brain of Louann Brizendine's women is a good book on the subject. And the differences in behavior and sensitivity are enormous. Women...

Men are always kind all their life with a woman who gave you her love. Even if it's over, even if you've been gone for a long time. If you felt loved. That is why ... When the woman falls in love, when she really falls in love, her openness to the man is deep and total. To arrive at this moment, there are many stages. They can also be executed almost simultaneously, but this man must represent a response to his needs, a series of his basic needs. If it's strength that's very important to her, she'll...

Sometimes men who do not know much about the female soul or do not yet know their partner well remain restless, when, after an engaging intimate moment, she bursts into tears and fails to stop and shake with sobs looks for closeness. It is a cry that seems to come from the deepest parts, from the kidneys and to rise up to the face to the hands that want to be pressed to the mouth by the lips that want to be kissed. And the more they felt close and united, the more this total intense crying is liberating...

The trap of idealization ... When we start dating a person, we have the conviction that only through repeated encounters will we understand how it really is. We think that at the beginning we can have a perception distorted by the intoxication of falling in love, which we are idealizing. May it be an ideal love. In reality, with time, we do not replace impressions with truth, but merely modify our perceptions according to the predominant cognitive models we have internalized, says psychologist Robert J...

The fund of human activities is time. The one with which we can explain different aspects of our life is always the time. There is a good time and a bad moment, a slow, a fast, a dense, a thin. Knowing how to use the right moment is a rare gift, usually winners. An attitude that almost never helps us is, on the contrary, proclaimed. People procrastinate not only to try to avoid pain, like the boy, when he knows he has to study, but he stays to play. It also happens in pain. In a recent article (The...

Manipulation of love Sometimes we find ourselves living relationships that we drag over time even if we know that there has never been love, there will never be or that it no longer exists. We cannot close them because a moral obligation has been created or we are disillusioned with being able to truly fall in love with them. In some cases because we are flattered by the great love that the other feels for us. We think his love is enough for both of us. But, at other times, we cannot get rid of them...

A seasoned brutina Drusilla Tanzi, small in stature, objectively ugly like Marcie of the Peanuts, short-sighted to such an extent that she seemed to wear glasses instead of glasses, often ill, was the main muse of the great poet Eugenio Montale...

The promises of love When we are in love, we do not skimp on the promises of love and the attention we dedicate to our partner, except then, once we have established a daily life, to find it difficult to continue to keep what we have promised. Not because we love less, nor because we don't have the desire, but because the routine breaks into the bubble in which only the two of us existed and the world, with all its problems and its needs, returns to require our attention. A case I remember a friend who travelled a lot for work...