relationship psychology

Then, how do we deal with the common "male and wife alliance damage" phenomenon around us? In China, many women marry and marry into their families. In addition to the husband and wife relationship, the relationship between the husband and wife, the younger brother, the younger sister, and other husbands’ family members. The couples who have divorced to maintain their respective native families have not seen a few. For example, in the face of conflicts between mother and daughter, the performance of the husband is particularly important...

In life, we will always find some girls who are in good condition in all aspects, but they will always be attracted by some very "bad" boys (commonly known as scum male). These men may not love them, indifference, selfishness, a few boats on their feet, or even married... but these girls still do not give up on them, and they are desperate. This is very fascinating. Why do some women indulge in men who don’t love themselves and have no sense of responsibility? Always fall in love with the scum man, what went wrong? 1...

Second, starting with honey love, finally greasy love - six people's love Another of my visitors is because I always have a conflict with my boyfriend in love. She told me that they belong to the electric light and flint. At first sight, the sweetness of the first two months is not as good as three autumns. Sticking together every day, but as the time for getting along with each other increases, the contradictions between the two become more and more prominent. For example, the visitor likes to touch the head of her boyfriend...

How is self-loathing made? Self-loathing is not a psychological state that is innately formed. In other words, no one naturally hates himself. After we were born, we learned from the later experience that we hate ourselves. So how is self-loathing formed? 1. "They all think that I am not good, I think so." Social psychologist George Herbert Mead mentioned in his "Mirror Self Theory" that people will pay attention to the opinions of the people around them and use these words to form their own judgments...

As a galloping therapist, I am very sensitive to movements and physical conditions, and I am very concerned about the emotions and emotions behind the movements. Just like just standing on this stage, I noticed that the muscles have become a bit stiff. The body tells me by this signal that it is in a very high-intensity, restrained state. There is no good or bad state of the body, it helps me to enhance my sense of self-control so that I can continue to share with you. The body is the container of the soul, and each soul is eager to express its truest look through the body...

First, began in secret love, and finally fell in love - a person's love, a visitor told me in the consultation, at the beginning of the school, he married a girl who made her heart, has the ability to have the ability, feel that she is herself People who want to protect their lives. Every time I pass by the girl on the road, my heart beats faster and I don't dare to look at each other. Every time I think of meeting this girl before class, I feel that my mood is very bright all day. Because of her...

Do you think you already know your family, friends, neighbors, colleagues? Actually not. We cannot see the hearts of others because we cannot overcome ourselves. You can't get rid of your own experience, beliefs, attitudes, emotions, and knowledge to know the world. We always look at the world through our own eyes. The biggest obstacle to understanding others is excessive self-centeredness. Copernicus may make the earth no longer the center of the universe, But everyone on the planet is still in the center of his own universe...

Usually, we will face some complicated "human things and environment", some parts of these things will affect us, we temporarily call this effect "S". When these effects occur, our cognition, emotions, body, and behavior will show some coping states (some people call them symptoms), and this state of appearance is called "R" for the time being. Because of these coping states, we have a final result "C". For example : On a romantic evening (environment), a girl and her boyfriend (S) enjoy a sumptuous candlelight dinner and take a walk along the beach (S)...

Does the mother who beats her son not love her son? Of course not. If it is not an emergency, the three people look very harmonious, and the mother’s eyes are caring. However, the son’s sudden disappearance, the mother was obviously overwhelmed by her fear of panic, she did not have the time and space to deal with these sudden emotions, and immediately took violent behavior after self-control, that is, scolding and corporal punishment of the son, the young son was inexplicably Scared. If the mother has the opportunity to reflect afterward, she will regret or blame herself for her misconduct...

1 "Exhaust gas" Anxiety of minors maybe a pot of traffic What? Air pollution not only hurts the body but also hurts the young mind? There have been many studies in the past that air pollution increases the risk of respiratory diseases, and this study adds new evidence to the dangers of air pollution. Recently, the University of Cincinnati and the Cincinnati Children's Hospital Medical Center observed the nervous system response of minors and found that traffic accidents can cause anxiety in children...

1 "Emotion Button" I’ll blow up my emotions: I will reject you before being rejected. There must be a few friends in your life who are going to blow up. Just because a little thing like being late, ordering something is not good, or not returning to WeChat in time, you will suddenly get angry. We usually feel that this friend is too easy to break out and needs to be careful. But the fact may also be that friends themselves can't control their emotions. Everyone has their own "emotional button", but some people have extra emotional buttons...

what is the meaning of life? Until recently, I saw this scene in a top-three hospital and I had the idea to write something to share with you. An elderly person who lives in a hospital all the year round, the condition of the elderly is not deteriorated or improved by the careful care of the children and the active treatment of the doctor. However, the elderly feel that this is a little drag on their children, and even have the idea of ​​being suicidal, hoping to ease the burden on their children...