Родители и дети

Do you know what a bucket list is? I didn't know until recently, but I think it's great! Because … "...a list of Spoons is the list to which you write down all your wishes and plans that you still want to put into practice before you drop the spoon."Sounds not very romantic, at least not the last part of the sentence… Well, maybe you still have a lot in your life, maybe you just re-align it, maybe you just have a separation or some other violent change behind you, maybe the kids are moving out soon, maybe you have inherited something or maybe you finally look more at yourself...

In the literal sense, some women often feel Ohn-powerful, so without their own power. For they have never learned to stand by their needs and are therefore unable to give themselves the authority for their own actions and decisions. While the first female Chakra has to do with grounding and centering, but also with the embossing through the clan, the second female Chakra with emotional collateral, as well as creativity and children is the third female Chakra is about personal Power and self-empowerment...

Bad tongues claim that we women have a more pronounced need for communication than men, but I know some of them who talk at least as much as we women, if not even more ! But it does not necessarily depend on the length of a conversation, but on the content. Because if we women also like to exchange through handbags, shoes or mascara, then we have just as many conversations, in which we are talking about our personal feelings or experiences. Nevertheless, there are still so many among us who have never learned to talk about their true feelings or needs...

Isn't it true that many women already suck in their female sense of duty with breast milk? No wonder, considering that the upbringing of girls over centuries and millennia was designed to serve women and determine the men (over them). But even in our time – and even in our Western culture-there are far more women than men who can be emotionally blackmailed by a sense of Duty or guilt. And once we think about how subtle Manipulation works, one thing becomes clear to us: without false sense...

I still remember the time in my life when I regularly hosted women's evenings at my home. At that time I was single Mom and I loved to immerse myself in the energy of this women's group. I was unaware that we women should seek the presence of other women again and again, in order to immerse ourselves in the Uniting femininity consciously and joyfully. Or to strengthen us by the resulting female energy field and refuel in it. In doing so, these women's meetings do not even have to have serious and profound discussions as their declared goal...

"Ingrid, What does the 'female way' actually mean?"I was asked only recently by a dear friend. Well, of course, I can only explain the female way as I understand and feel it. But in order to better answer...

There are people who cost you a lot of energy. You are constantly on the alert when you meet them, because they tend to blame you, criticize you, exploit you or make you small. They want to show you how good, strong or powerful they are – and they usually work according to the same patterns as they were treated as a child by others. If you value yourself and show respect and respect for yourself, then you will see the importance of "sorting out" those people in your life who do more harm than good...

Quick solutions are not always the best. Many of us have long recognised this. Yet we often rush through our lives as if there was no tomorrow. Already in school, we were trained on speed. Top results are expected in the shortest time. I still remember how the whole class began to sweat during the tests, because the volume of produced Work was pressing in a very tight time corset. Tempo seems to have become a misinterpreted quality feature in our time, as we want to do or experience too much at once and therefore fill up our calendar up to the top...

For many women, taking care of themselves-others-is the first thing in their lives. Be it the children, the Partner, the parents or the people in their everyday work – as long as they can care for others, they feel loved and valuable. In doing so, they are happy to accept the fact that they completely depict their own needs or even over years or decades and forget and forget. But at some point then comes the day when the children become winged, a partnership breaks or long-standing priorities completely shift...

Many women have the romantic idea that their relationships – and especially their love relationships – must always be happy and harmonious. In doing so, they forget or displace that the up and down of life is an essential part of their relationship life. They may even feel it as a punishment or as an unjust fate, when it seems to go straight or even down again for a while after a high in love. In doing so, she supports her innate female "instinct nature", which helps them to integrate all positive and negative experiences into themselves and to withstand even difficult situations...