Female.

Everything in the world has to be paid for. Not always with money, but more often with deeds. Living with a woman without taking responsibility for her is not like a man. And to agree to it is not in a woman's way. For a man, it's like robbing a bank, taking someone else's things without asking and using them. For a woman - the same thing that to give all the most expensive and necessary to the first person he meets just like that and then to cover the criminal. That is - complicity in the crime...

Unmarried girls always ask the same question (and many people don't ask, but immediately start raking): "If he's not my husband, I still have to do the same thing you write about for your wives?" Still, it is logical - we live together, it means as if the husband. Or even just meet, but I want to marry him! I will serve as hard as I can, wash my socks and cook his breakfast lunch and dinner, nourish him with energy, inspire him... But my answer is no! Absolutely not! Absolutely not! A roommate is a "kind of" husband...

Hardness, consistency and unattachedness. These are the most important thing for a woman. When my future husband began to look after me, my heart was closed. After four years, it would have been strange if it hadn't closed. For everyone in principle. Yes, I was taking it all, but my heart was locked. I didn't try on his last name, didn't make plans about him, I didn't have time for that at all. But he was persistent. Cafes, flowers, candy, kefir and cookies, signs of attention... The moment I realized where it was going, I decided to stop all this by saying a simple phrase...

Don't help a man win you over! Otherwise, it makes no sense. This is some strange woman's move — if you find me, I'm yours, and if you don't find me, I'm in the closet. Why? For what? So that for sure he “conquered”? Out of fear of being alone? Or out of fear that such a good thing will never happen again? But for the sake of decency, I have to win, so I need help. And then suddenly he won't succeed, and he will go to the more accessible one. Girls who are already in love and tied up, are ready to justify men and help them to win themselves...