Psychology

Capricious children! How much trouble they create! Especially when they get hysterical in public places. When they do not obey, when they do not want to dress to go to kindergarten. Caprices in the eyes of parents Imagine you're standing in line with a child. Hold a basket of groceries in one hand and wriggle in the other to reach out to that candy. You have already explained that you will not buy candy. But your child insistently continues to demand. And now, before you had time to blink an eye, as the whims began...

Laziness has manifested itself in many ways. Most often it was an internal resistance to prolonged mental work. As well as putting things off for "later" all the time. A ray of sun in the dark kingdom sometimes smiled at me. There were short moments of "enlightenment" when laziness turned off, and I started to do everything quickly and well. But it didn't last longer than two days. And that, it was rare. Then another rollback, and I was thrown back into the draught swamp of postponing, suffering from bullshit and self-blaming for my own idleness and laxity...

What exactly do perception filters evaluate? Anything... The words or deeds of another person. Your actions and your own position in this situation. For example, a hopeless situation. It is also an assessment of the present, past or future. What is the future? It is bleak and joyless. So, the filters of perception will be "hopelessness" and "joylessness". And what is the past? Irretrievably lost. Accordingly, the filters can be "irrecoverable" or "lost". Where do all these colorful filters come from? Life itself teaches us about perception filters...

In this article, I will tell about a loophole of our mind which allows us to eliminate any psychological problems cleanly and irrevocably. You will learn about perception filters that distort the information coming from outside, thus generating a lot of internal conflicts and psychological problems. What are perception filters? Looking at the world through pink glasses. What does this mean? It means to see only the good, only the beautiful, completely ignoring the problems and troubles that objectively exist in this world...

A good friend of mine has a daughter, Veronica. A wonderful and bright child. When Veronica was 3 or 4 years old, her mother tried to teach her to say "thank you" if the good people were treating her to something delicious. The result wasn't so good... Every time I had to remind her of good manners. Without a clue, she rarely remembered what to thank. And that's when I came up with the idea! I decided to do an experiment: when Veronica gave me an object, I smiled and thanked her for "thank you...