If you know “who are you?”, “where are you going?” and “why?”, you can easily cope with any crisis situation! It's simple: either a person plays his own Game and wins anyway, or becomes a player in someone else's Game and loses!
You want to increase your inner level of happiness. Let's take one step at a time. Remember “Being - Doing - Having?” Well, realization at each level increases the feeling of happiness. It's important to have it on all three levels. Otherwise, you will always be missing something.
Level One: To Have
What do I want to have?
This is about living a happiness that is outcome-driven - you could say “achiever” happiness. When we realize what we want, when we achieve our goals and our dreams come true - the level of happiness increases dramatically. But, only for a while. It's like a drug - we constantly need a new dose of achievement.....
What exactly do you want to have here and now in business and life?
Level Two: Doing
What do I want to experience (live)?
We can be happy not only when we achieve goals and realize dreams, but also when we have some exciting new experience. For example, the birth of a child and its first smile, a gorgeous view from the window, a parachute jump, the excitement of new beautiful places while traveling, etc.
What do I want to experience in this life, thanks to business in particular?
Level three: Being
I divide this level into two parts:
1) Who do I want to Be?
“The scale of the business equals the scale of the entrepreneur's personality,” according to Dan Sullivan. When we experience personal growth, our level of happiness is also constantly increasing. In today's unpredictable world, it is important for an entrepreneur, a leader to constantly grow, evolve, and pump themselves up in their skills.
Personal growth is the foundation!
Show me your foundation and I will tell you what you can build on it. The foundation is the personality of the entrepreneur.
The personality of the businessperson is the main limiting factor in the growth of a company. Remember the phrase, “The fish rots from the head”? Scale, the ability to create a vision, self-confidence, inner strength and energy, self-reliance, forward thinking strategies, overcoming fears, mindfulness, connecting to the mission (meaning) - these are the basis of the foundation.
It is important to answer the questions:
- What kind of person do I want to be?
This is a lifelong process, your journey. There is a beginning and no end. It's about your personal growth.
- What is my scale?
- What is important for me to realize this scale?
- What do I want people to say about me?
2) What is my contribution? What should it be?
This is about legacy.
- What am I leaving behind?
- What mark am I leaving on history?
- What contribution am I creating in the process?
- What am I making a difference in the world?
When a leader answers these questions, their happiness level increases. Imagine, your life has come to an end and you look back on your journey, your beautifully lived life, and describe what you are proud of....
- What accomplishments have you achieved and what have you left behind?
- What legacy have you created?
- What are you especially proud of and what can you say, “Yes, I lived my life for a reason!”?
- What emotions, experiences, personal growth have you experienced?
- What contribution have you made to the world through your business and beyond?
Do you want to add something to your list of desires and goals? If so, add it now!
A higher level of happiness affects your efficiency. Trust in the world and openness help you to see new and better opportunities and realize them. And it is not a secret that it is always more pleasant to deal and communicate with a happy person.
Let's summarize. Take a list of your goals and divide it into 3 parts:
1. Have (What do I want to have?).
2. Doing (What do I want to experience?).
3. Being (What do I want to Be? What am I contributing?).
- What interesting observations have you made?
- How do you feel when you have put everything down on paper and systematized it?
- What sensations in the body appeared?
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