what is the meaning of life?
Until recently, I saw this scene in a top-three hospital and I had the idea to write something to share with you.
An elderly person who lives in a hospital all the year round, the condition of the elderly is not deteriorated or improved by the careful care of the children and the active treatment of the doctor. However, the elderly feel that this is a little drag on their children, and even have the idea of being suicidal, hoping to ease the burden on their children.
After the children learned about the mother’s inquiry about “euthanasia”, one of the children said, “Mom, we know that you are suffering from the disease all year round. You can’t bear to look at you as a child. The doctor says yours. The disease is just to calm down and adjust slowly. It is our responsibility to take care of you. It is your responsibility to accept our care!"
Yes! The meaning of our life is not only the responsibility of “paying”, but also the “acceptance” of others.
Accepting the care of the children is the responsibility of the old man's life. Just as the parents take care of the children in the shackles, the children were also responsible for fulfilling their lives in the shackles.
When my daughter was born, I wrote in my circle of friends: "Thank you, my daughter, choose me to be your father. This is my life's honor." Thanks, her, because she accepted me to become Father.
The average person squats when he is young, and when he grows up, he gets married and has children. Then the child grows up, retires himself, and waits for his death. In addition, some people, since childhood, determined to become a big man after growing up, to make a lot of money.
Some smart people know how to plan their careers. After they have life experience, they can plan their future life. For example, a 50-year-old person hopes to do something in the next ten years. At the age of 60, if the body is still healthy, plan a 10-year plan for yourself.
These people know how to arrange their own lives, but they don't necessarily know the value of life and life.
The meaning of life & the value of life
From the perspective of my major and 10 years of consulting experience:
The meaning of life may be in the growth of the self, and the value of life may be in sharing with others.
Life is the growth of individuals, and life is the interaction between individuals and groups of individuals and history.
The growth of the individual lies in the establishment of a life, the cultivation of personality, and the establishment of a moral code of life. The sharing of life lies in the commitment and continuation of social responsibility and historical responsibility.
The norms of life are limited and the value of life is unlimited.
The meaning of life is not only the survival of the body but also the growth of the soul. The process of growth is ups and downs, not measured by the number of money, and there is basically no linear correlation between the material level and the spiritual level.
When a person's personality is degraded, it may also be the time when his wealth grows rapidly;
When a person is in spirit and wealth is extremely good;
When a person is destitute, his mood is bleak.
It is difficult to find out the inevitable rules or the ones that meet health standards. Although there are many “experts” who have studied the rules and standards, I still keep my opinion and look at it ten years later.
The value of human beings often lies in the interaction of interpersonal relationships.
Interpersonal interaction is nothing more than two kinds, one is "acceptance" and the other is "pay". Acceptance is passive, and it seems that it is involuntarily and not controlled by oneself. Acceptance is not a bad thing, and the interaction between people is often based on acceptance. On the other hand, “paying” is a kind of interpersonal interaction that can demonstrate individual strength and is also highly regarded by the mainstream of society. Paying for the knowledge and technology that you have, as well as all kinds of financial resources and social resources, because of the effort, it shows the value of life.
Why do some people commit suicide? Perhaps when a person is faced with extreme fear, helplessness, and boredom, he will lose confidence in himself, be uncertain about the future, have no confidence in his face, can’t see his future, or have foreseen the future disaster. Since there is no hope, life is better than death and will choose to go on suicide.
In fact, from another perspective, I did not put myself in interpersonal interaction because I did not have the ability to "pay" and were not willing to be an "accepted" person. Seemingly forced to take the road, it is actually unwilling to assume the responsibility of "acceptance."
Even the most humble person, his life has a high price responsibility. Unless it is accidental death or natural death, as long as it is alive, it has its meaning and value. Even the life of a terminally ill patient still has value and responsibility. At least it is the responsibility of being taken care of. As long as we have a breath, we have to accept others. My responsibility for care and care, suicide is to completely "accept" the care and care of others, and not to apologize and "pay" opportunities.
Finally, I wrote it out. I am actually publishing this article with the "pay" interpersonal interaction. Learning to accept is also my growth theme, let's go together! Being idle is also idle. I wish that I can fulfill my "acceptance" responsibility with due diligence.