Freud referred to the drive that causes human activity among people, " the libido Relies on the satisfaction of the basic needs of life and chooses their participants as their first objects. And as for the individual, and in the development of all mankind, only love, as a cultural factor, acted in the sense of turning from egoism to altruism.”
The libido, to which Freud separated almost all the forces of psychic existence, in my opinion, just solves the basic communicative problem, which comes from the instinct of communication.
According to Freud, Libido is primarily a sexual attraction. In mass Psychology and the analysis of the human Self, Freud defines Libido as” an expression taken from the doctrine of affectivity. We call by this term the energy of such instincts, which deal with all that can be grasped by the word love. This energy is regarded as a quantity, although it cannot be measured at present." And although he pointed to the all-embracing character of the spread of libidinous energy and the social connections built on it, in my opinion, the understanding of Libido should be expanded, as a result not only of Eros, but also of the instinct of communication. And, accordingly, to endow it not only sexy, but prezhdevsego, a binder, a communicative force. But what remains invariably true according to Freud is that the choice of an object is always based on the Libidinal cathexis,i.e. the investment of elements of the sexual instinct in the object. Thus we have a need for communication, or a communicative impulse, which may be regarded as Libido, but from the point of view of the choice of the object of communication, the Libido is still erotically coloured.
Also, it should be noted that Jung in his research understood the Libido somewhat wider than Freud, namely, as a concept of General psychic energy. In this sense, Jung's concept is closer to my understanding of the issue.
Communication in psychoanalysis
The process of communication is so studied that almost none of the psychoanalysts of the Anglo-Saxon group does not pay enough serious attention to it, although the entire psychoanalytic method is built on working with communicative processes. This communication of two persons, the patient Analytica, the purpose of which is to analyze an analyst of the unconscious patient, with one hand, and the awareness of their own unconscious patient on the other.The analyst directs his attention to the analysis of desires, drives, conflicts, dreams, etc. and all this is done through communication between the analyst and the patient. Our job, according to Harold stern, is to make sure that the patient is free to say whatever comes into his head.And this, he said, is largely enough to resolve intrapersonal conflicts. In other words, we achieve free flow and retractablecables energy, so to speak. If the patient really talks about everything and it does not cause him resistance, it is an indicator of his mental health or lack of unconscious conflicts in this area. But, practice says that conflicts are almost everywhere and they are revealed, not allowing the patient to reflect freely, causing a reaction of resistance.
Interaction theory
More and more one begins to think about the deep meaning of communication in the light of theories showing that man is not only in constant interaction with the environment, but also the surrounding nature itself has mechanisms that make man in some degree a follower of certain laws and forces that make him a permanent participant in the universal exchange of information or energy, which can be viewed from the point of view of communication. Although all these theories have completely different approaches.
If we talk about psychoanalysts, we can cite many examples confirming the importance of communication already at the earliest stages of child development, this is written almost all the classics, paying attention to this issue each with a specific,characteristic of his theory, point of view. I will try to give these examples in the analysis of the theory of object relations. And now I would like to visit the support of research scientists showing the global communicative laws of nature.