Youth is beautiful. It seems to last forever. But the clock is ticking, and now you're over 35... is it scary? Every age has its advantages, and so does this one. Let's list them.
We already all know and all are at
When we're young, we get bumps all the time for lack of experience. We are not confident, do not know what to do in a given situation, and often get into a mess. In 35 and older this already, typically, not happens. We have perfectly studied all our strengths and weaknesses, we know how to present ourselves profitably. We know what suits us and what does not, what should or should not be worn, so you can not waste time on experiments.
We understand people
By this age, we have learned to understand people. And if on a date it was found out that the man "not ours", we perfectly see it that allows not to step again on the same rake. We can just get up and leave, and not waste time on unnecessary relationships.
We are professionals
We have realized ourselves in professional activities, we have a solid track record in the resume. We do not doubt our professional qualities. We know how to communicate with employers and colleagues, how to behave at job interviews.
We can find a way out of any situation
If there is a difficult situation, we have something to compare it with thanks to previous experience. Therefore, we find a way out of difficulties with honor
We can do a lot
We know how to do a lot of things: pickled cucumbers, make jam, put up a tent in the campaign, cross-stitch, apply a tight bandage, massage... each of us over the past years has accumulated a list of skills that sooner or later can be very useful.
We have learned to organize our lives the way we want
Some of us weekly arranges in the apartment spring cleaning, and someone cleaned once a month. Someone prepares daily breakfasts, Lunches and dinners, and someone is content with snacks in the cafe and semi-finished products from the nearest supermarket. But this is the way of life that suits us.
We accept our body
We do not blame ourselves for the extra piece of cake or cake eaten. And if we want to go on a diet, we do it. We make our own decisions and take responsibility for our actions or not. We know how to "present" ourselves.
We have learned to take care of our health
In 20 years of going to the doctor does not want, and about diseases, I don't think. Meanwhile, the young also get sick. With age comes the understanding that health - a matter of gain and everything depends on us. After 35, women begin to pay more attention to their physical condition, are more willing to read articles on medical topics, when ailments are sent for examinations, consult with doctors. And it helps not to miss the alarming symptoms.
We have already found our place in life
By the age of 35, everything about yourself already becomes clear: what you like and what you do not like, what you like and what you do not like. Therefore, most of us at this age stop rushing and looking for themselves. We just do what we want, whether it's a job or a hobby.
We don't fuss
There are opportunities for solving some internal problems, for self-development. Of course, radical changes are possible at any age, but when we are calm and confident, we spend less time on the fuss and it becomes clear in what direction to move on. Have us more free time To 35 studies already usually is over, in profession more-less realized, children largely have become independent, family took place or not took place...
Anyway, we have time for ourselves. You can go to learn a second foreign language, you can travel and discover new countries and cities, you can go to theaters and exhibitions, you can blog on the Internet... you can stay Active and 35, and 40, and 50.
We don't care what others think of us
We have already formed a certain opinion about ourselves. We can afford to wear a skirt with sneakers or dye our hair green without worrying about who will think what of us. At this age, we can already afford to be ourselves and we have a circle of friends who accept us as we are. And if someone doesn't like something about us, that's their problem. According to experts, this is just a great approach.
We stop dramatizing the little things of life
With age, the approach to life becomes more philosophical, we are less sensitive to trouble. With experience and wisdom of life comes the realization that things that are really worth worrying about, not so much. Betrayed a friend, abandoned a loved one, the chief yelled at me, and promised to dismiss? In 18 because of this, I wanted to throw myself out of the window, and now — cried and forgot. If no one died or got sick, you could always start over. Find new friends to usher in a new, more successful relationship, to change jobs...