The relationship between a man and a woman is cyclical. And this is the norm. It's a healthy cycle, however, you might think otherwise.
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Two opposing people together. At first, euphoria, passion, strong attraction, fusion in each other. A couple, as if in the same capsule. Then comes the cold. People start to be little by little present in their own world of "loneliness with borders".
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But that doesn't mean it's time to break up. On the contrary, it is important to be able to live with a person in the same area, to step aside a little and leave alone for a while.
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Again, this is a healthy process. But I know from practice that one of the couple suffers at this time. Because it cannot "stick out" from the partner. Most often it is women, but it happens in men as well.
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Not knowing why the lover is moving away, there are accusations:
- What's going on, you don't love me?
- I know you're cheating, otherwise, it wouldn't have happened.
- I'm no longer needed, so be honest.
- I'm sure the mistress interfered with our relationship.
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Continued in the next publication 🔜
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Remember how you behaved when you faced it. Did you go away for a while or did you look for clues in your partner's "cold"?