"I'm a bad parent"
Baby stuff is one of my favorite topics. Because people have too many false stereotypes about what mom, dad and family should be like. I often hear people say that they are not as good as the others, because they cannot play well with their children. I want to ask the question "do you have to? To be a good parent is not to be loving. In fact, our "love" kills children.
Like in a joke.
- Son, go home. - Mom says.
- That I'm already hungry?
- No, darling, you're already cold.
Because of such excessive "love" we adjust the child to ourselves. Depriving of attempts to know life.
I think that there is no parent who cannot cope with the child. There are parents who cope in their own way.
Personally, today I have enough strength only to hug my children. Lie down, dream, squeeze with each other. And the importance is how I do not get into the guilt of "bad mother". This is the magic of psychology.
Do you allow yourself to do what you want, not what is "right"?