- When I deal with the subject of "relations with men" at a certain point, the same problem always comes up: lack of self-confidence.
- There are extraordinary women, really. Women who have been able to raise children on their own. Women who have managed very well at work. Women who pulled up their sleeves and achieved important results in the study. Yet, in relationships, they still lack self-confidence and confidence in what they can achieve.
Lack of self-confidence systematically leads you into the arms of the wrong men.
It makes you believe you don't deserve better.
It makes you think that in the end, it is right to be satisfied.
It makes you imagine a disappointing life because the best is not possible for you.
In short, it's a huge problem. And cumbersome.
It's a ball and chain, a boulder that many, too many women carry around for years. Sometimes, forever.
It's that weight you feel inside, that brings you to unexpected melancholy and sadness.
It's like a heavy bag full of potatoes to which an extra kilo is added every day.
But how is it possible that there are women who have a satisfactory life in some respects and disappointing in relationships?
The explanation is simple, the solution a little less (but there is!).
There are three levels of self-confidence:
- superficial. It is the level that you allow the world to see. You know when you go on Instagram and they all look beautiful, rich and happy? A world of people with high self-confidence. Superficial. Something that looks, but has nothing to do with what they really have inside.
- usual. It's what allows you to live in dignity. Your usual self-confidence is the one that is useful to you in dealing with others at a work or social level.
- deep. The self-confidence of this level is the one that has the most impact on your relationships. When it comes to putting your heart on the plate, it's about bringing out your emotions, it's about knowing how to put yourself in play sentimentally without forgetting your value, it's this level of trust that counts.
- If you have this level of trust well active and functioning, you are really a woman who can get everything she wants. This does not mean that it will make you immune from pain and suffering, but that it will allow you to be able to overcome them and resume quickly.
You may emotionally lose someone, but if you trust yourself at the deepest level, you know that you will always be able to move forward.
You cannot reach this level of trust in a logical way. You can repeat yourself as long as you want to be loved and respected but then continue in fact not to do so.
Likewise, for those who smoke, they can read endlessly and logically understand how much smoking hurts, but then continue to do so.
Why?
- It is the emotional bond that leads us to change. To be able to develop the deepest bond with yourself and really reach the deepest level of self-confidence that will allow you to build successful relationships, you will have to work at an emotional level, not logical.
It is clearly important that you understand logically that it is necessary to do this, but you must then have an emotional guide to help you in practice.
That's why I decided to create the Club of Valuable Women: every month you will have access to exclusive content that will guide you step by step in creating a deep confidence in yourself and then in creating the conditions to create and improve your relationships constantly.
The Club will be launched this week, these are the last days to put you on the list and receive the launch offer directly.