I'll give you three simple suggestions to be able to do this effectively:
- Today you have so many opportunities that were a mirage until a few years ago. You have access to the world, to millions of people in real-time. Really, if you think about it, it's incredible.
- The other side of the coin, however, is the fact that it has made everything idealized, fake. You're used to showing yourself beautiful in the photos on Facebook or on the apps because otherwise “what a picture you make of it”. Often this results in being even different from who you are, with absurd filters or other devilish things that you can have at your disposal. And this happens to him too.
- The human being is coming out of his real and natural dimension and is becoming a copy of his virtual self. It's just that it's impossible in reality to be something artificial and fake.
- From here arise problems, insecurities, claims. And relationships fall apart. Or they don't even begin.
- Your goal is to make sure to remove this filter sick of unreality and return to what is true. This does not mean that you have to stop using the resources you have available (social, apps, etc.) but that when you go out and meet someone live you are able to really bring out the best in yourself and allow the other to do the same.
- The key to everything is to stop being a boring woman who takes everything too seriously, but instead be a fun woman, a woman who has the ability to face life with the necessary lightness to make it more enjoyable to herself and those around her.
I'll give you three simple suggestions to be able to do this effectively:
- let yourself go.
Stop with these chicken-mouthed selfies, these similar parades when you enter a club, this competition continues to those who are cooler.
In a relationship, fun and self-deprecating teasing are basic aspects if you really want to create an emotional connection that lasts over time. Don't take yourself too seriously and try to open yourself up by showing fearlessly those aspects of your character or your body that many women are ashamed of. I assure you that for a balanced man this makes you much more attractive than you have a neckline that shows off your merchandise. - Prepare to make a fool of yourself.
The human being is by definition imperfect. You don't have to be afraid to make bad appearances. Prepare to put yourself and show yourself in situations where you are not perfect, where you can't do something, where you are clumsy. And face them with a light heart, without worries and stress. This allows your potential partner to appreciate you and feel tenderness for who you really are. - Don't judge.
If your potential partner (or current partner!) does something strange or ridiculous, don't judge him. Laugh with him and not at him. Experience moments of embarrassment as moments of sharing and fun. Allowing the couple to face even the slightest difficulties or daily hindrances lightly is extremely important to make sure that you and your partner are really a strong and very close team. - These are aspects that it is very difficult for a man to explain to you, but they are basic to really fall in love with you in a deep and lasting way. When a man disappears, perhaps without explanation or with a general excuse, it is often a behavior that goes back to the lack of awareness of these suggestions.
- To succeed in your relationship life, you can't expect everything to “go as it is” but you have to make sure you know those little tricks and secrets of the human mind that allow you to guide your life in the direction you want to go.
- We are now a few days away from the launch of the Women of Value Club, the first and only membership in Italy where every month you will have access to everything you need to create the life you want, with the people you want.