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Nowadays, people are in a hurry and are eager to get married. There are only two kinds of opposite sex in the eyes. They can get married and can't get married. It seems that if you get married, you can do it. I don't like this kind of love with marriage purpose. It is not necessary to marry a person before he talks with him.
I like it slowly, isn’t it?
I always feel that the feeling of slowly falling in love is very stable, very comfortable, and slowly understand, you said that the moon under the long street, slowly understand, you said the sizzling snack street, slowly understand, you said In the story, the old dog squats at the door and waits for the owner to go home. If he doesn't worry, he will finish the words at once. Some big buns can't bite the meat in the first place. The first bite of durian is very stubborn. The fastest dish on the barbecue stall. It is a cucumber, and the good play is in the fireworks.
You are not so anxious to get married, you need a natural love, everyone's life rhythm is not the same, 23-year-old marriage, very good, that is, people meet love early, 35-year-old married, It’s also very good. It’s okay to have a late love. Not everyone gets up at 7:00 in the morning. Don’t take a bowl of beef noodles to measure the stomach. Don’t let them want to eat. Some people want to gorge, some People are willing to chew slowly because everyone is not at the same time.
Once you import into the rhythm of others, it will be very awkward. I don't know if you know a game? Called two people and three feet, is to tie the two feet of two people together as one, and then walk with three feet, always awkward at first, or he is either slow or slow, why? The rhythm is wrong. You fall in love with a person, sometimes you make you tired and breathless, because the rhythm is wrong, no matter who is catering to the rhythm, no one is wrong, until one day, you find out that you belong The rhythm, you feel that love is cool.
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A colleague told me that she had a date.
She attaches great importance to wearing her favorite skirt and white shoes and has made up her favorite lipstick. She turns around in front of the mirror, for fear of a little squat, waiting for the date, is a snack street. The mountains are crowded with people, and the boys are happy to buy her a variety of snacks. The hibiscus is a small kebab, and the squid octopus balls are smashed from the east side of the street to the west side of the street.
She felt aggrieved, and the boys didn't take a closer look at how carefully she dressed, and her little white shoes were stepped on by others.
The boy asked her, how depressed?
She wants a decent date, don't care what to eat, even if she is sitting in KFC, it should be a time for them to be two people, they can chat and laugh, instead of rushing in the crowd Also worry about the snacks on the white clothes.
The boys said that if you don't like to eat, we can change others. I thought you would be very happy.
At that time, she felt that she was not taken seriously. The male physiology should apologize to her. She should bear this anxiety. She should have married her and made her happy. She accepted an apology. However, for a moment, she realized that I had mastered the power of killing him. He didn’t do anything wrong. If I didn’t like it, why didn’t I say it at the beginning, why did I force myself to pretend to be a prostitute? Then torture him, I can tell him why I am angry. Love is not that you have mastered the initiative, you will arbitrarily fall to the other side.
If you let go of the dress before the date, you feel that you are not taken seriously, but those snacks are her favorite. It’s just the rhythm of everyone, there is no merger.
She smiled and said to her boyfriend, look at my lipstick, look good?
Her boyfriend said, look good.
She said, then you don't hurry to kiss, after a while eating snacks, it is not good to watch. I am not so angry, but I think that I am dressed so beautifully, I should be paid attention to by you. When I see that you buy so many snacks I like, I know that you love me. I hope that you can advance in the next time. Prepare, date should have a date.
Her boyfriend suddenly smiled and was no longer nervous because he knew where the rhythm was wrong.
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I want to like you slowly because I want to adapt to your rhythm and want to enjoy our rhythm.
There must be someone in this world who is co-produced with you. You are slow and slow, you are fast, and the rhythm is very comfortable. Everyone knows each other's temper and bottom line and understands each other's preferences and hatred. To understand each other's past and plans, you know that this is the right person because this is the rhythm of love you want.
Where some people don't like to fall in love, but everyone doesn't like disappointment. You come across a person you like. You said that he is the exception. You are willing to change everything for him. At that time, you have been chaotic, with no rhythm, one day. You take his sorrow and joy as your sorrow and joy, you know that you are finished, you can not lose him, and he will leave you at any time.
It is not loving, it is a lonely journey, you have been hungry for many days, and you have seen smoke from people in the distance. You are just asking for a bite because your road has not finished.
Yeah, don’t like a person, don’t mess with your rhythm. There is more for you to stop for you. Less is to accompany you. So, I want to like you slowly, even if you are gone, for slow heat. For people, the time of cooling is also happy enough for a long time, how good.
I seem to know why we are getting more and more unhappy. Everyone is too anxious to get a result. If you pay no return, you will stop. It is rare to see someone slowly sticking to it. After reading a book, you want to get a promotion and raise your salary. After running a section of the road, I want to lose 5 pounds (ca. 2,268 g) immediately. I will send a WeChat to look forward to the second, but the results are often unsatisfactory. We are beginning to worry, obviously others are getting married, you are panicked, obviously, others are promoted, and you are panicked. Do you still have your sense of rhythm?
You can really, slowly like everything you like, no one will beat you in your rhythm.
