People with higher levels, they know how to feel empathy and empathy, knowing that everyone is not easy and know how to respect others.
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Italian illustrator Marco Melgrati has created a painting based on realistic themes - "You never know who to play with you!"
Why are really good people respecting others?
The cat in the picture regards the snake tail as a rat tail, and grasps the snake's tail with claws without fear.
The significance of this painting is: You never know who is playing with you, respect everyone, and don't easily despise and underestimate anyone. You may see a little, and others have already seen you, just thinking about hurting you.
Respecting others is actually solemn. Knowing how to respect others is also the biggest manifestation of one's education.
True respect is actually an equality, not looking up, not overlooking, not humble. The higher the level of people, the more understanding respect means equality, value, personality and cultivation. People with low levels tend to be selfish and short-sighted, and they are self-righteous and stand on the moral high ground to blame others.
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Dostoevsky also said: People who do not respect people first do not respect themselves.
Remember a former hotel management professional brother and I said a story of his interview:
That time he went to apply for the assistant of the hotel general manager. After several rounds of re-examination, he finally left him and a girl to see the final stage of the general manager.
On that day, the two of them were told to go to the general manager's office. On the road, a cleaning aunt was rubbing the glass. Her cleaning car was placed next to it. When she turned around, she accidentally bumped into the girl and poured water from the bucket into two people. On the body. There are water stains on the girls’ shoes and skirts, as well as on the brother’s pants and shoes.
The girl said in a flash: "Do you have a long-sighted cleaning staff who knows that someone is coming behind, you are not intentional. I will wait for an interview. Now, let me see how I can see people, and I am delayed. Are you responsible for my interview? It’s bad luck."
Turned his head and said to the brothers: "You wait for me, I will go clean up, wait for them to go together, or else you will not be right to go alone." After the answer, I went to the bathroom.
When the brother heard the girl talking like this, she didn’t like her. The brother said to the cleaning aunt: "Auntie, it doesn't matter, it is a splash of water, don't be too self-blaming, just pay attention next time."
Then help the cleaning aunt to clean the water on the ground, while waiting for the girl, while chatting with the aunt, while cleaning the clean high glass.
Finally, the two of them went to the general manager's office, and the general manager extended his hand to the brothers: Congratulations, you were accepted.
It turned out that the so-called last interview was just the test of cleaning aunt. The general manager said: We are the service industry, there are others in the heart, and knowing how to respect others is the most important.
Therefore, respect is an important manifestation of a person's education; taking into account the feelings of others, knowing how to change position, will win the trust and support of others.
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The level of a person can often be seen in a small quality.
I have seen a video before, in the corridor of the office building, because it is inevitable to delay the delivery in the winter, the female customer saw the meal sent by the takeaway brother, directly angered and poured the food on the ground. Relatively bad words, complaining that the takeaway brother is late for dinner, and the food is cold.
The female customer’s anger at selling the younger brother is not only because the takeaway is late, but more importantly, she subconsciously looks down on the food delivery industry. In another scene, if her boss gave her a late file, would the female customer dare to drop the document on the ground as the boss?
The level of self-cultivation is often not reflected in his attitude towards his superiors, friends, and colleagues, but in his respect for those who are "lower than him."
No matter between people and people, or between industry and industry, there is no distinction between high and low, and they are equal. Respecting others means respecting oneself.
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The level of a person's level has nothing to do with his academic qualifications, wealth, social class, etc., and his vision, self-cultivation, and pattern.
People with higher levels tend to have high emotional intelligence, and the more they know how to respect others. At the same time, a person who knows how to respect others is often an "excellent" person.
They have long-term visions, experience, and a large pattern; they are mature and full of internally, and they do not need to be devalued by demeaning others and show off themselves; they also know how to empathize and empathize, and understand the difficulty and efforts of respecting others.
Respect for others can be divided into three realms:
The first realm: respect for loved ones
The second realm: respect for passers-by
The third realm: respect the enemy
When we can respect the enemy, we actually have no enemies, and this is truly invincible.
Respect for leadership is a kind of vocation. Respecting colleagues is a duty. Respecting subordinates is a virtue. Respecting customers is a common sense. Respecting opponents is a kind of generosity. Respecting everyone is a kind of education. It can be said that it is the charm of respect. Unlimited.
No one can perfection. We have no reason to look at others with the eyes of the mountains. We are not qualified to hurt others' self-esteem with disdain. If we are not as good as others, we do not have to be inferior or embarrassed. To replace the self-esteem that should be. Only by learning to respect others can you win the respect of others. In fact, respecting others is to respect yourself.
The heart is one foot wide and one foot wide, and the open-heart is kind to everyone. Whether you like it or hate it, whether it is your friend or your enemy, respect them. This is a kind of courage and a kind of wisdom.
