10% of your life is made up of what happens to you, and the other 90% is determined by how you react to what is happening.
In other words, if you do something wrong, you may need to do 9 things to make up for it. If you chase the mistake, you will be farther and farther.
If you want to change yourself, please never do the following 20 things for yourself:
1. Don't entangle with rotten people
Chou Gulping said that life must have a weaker wisdom. Often compete with the same good, not short with the fool.
Entangled with the wrong person, it will only drag you into the dirty mud. Don't get rid of bad guys, because your good time is worth wasting on all the good things.
2. Lifelong learning, don't stop
When the times abandon you, they will not say goodbye to you. Failure to improve is actually the biggest step backwards. You are working hard to move forward, not to change the world but to not be abandoned by the world.
3. Be yourself, don't blindly imitate others
You can form a Fan Bingbing in one day, but you can't read it as a Lin Huiyin one day. The imitation of others' beauty can't come, and you don't have to imitate it. You have your own uniqueness. Every life is original, don't let yourself live into piracy.
4. Don't lose your sense of youth
Young has nothing to do with age. Some people are old when they are 30 years old, while others are still young at 80 years old. Maintain a sense of juvenile, do not compromise with life, dare to fight, dare to dare, dare to be first, if the heart is not old, life will last forever.
5. Don't over-consume yourself
You can feed your dreams with a tired body, you can win with a strong body, but you can't take it back to health. The body is the capital of the revolution. If you overdraw yourself, you will lose more than you gain.
6. Don't be too busy
When you are busy, you are tired, but when you are busy with meaningful things, you will be satisfied. If you are comfortable, you will be rusted. Don't choose comfort in the age of struggle, don't be inactive and comfort yourself.
7. Don't just take the road
There are often only one reason for people to be confused, that is, your strength is not worthy of your ambition. Don't go straight to the flat road. It is difficult to jump out of the inherent thinking even if you walk for a long time. Unlimited beauty is at the peak, and the rugged road that has not passed is more attractive.
8. Don't be afraid to make mistakes
It is not terrible to make mistakes. It is terrible to never make mistakes. The mistake is actually a learning opportunity. Everyone grows up in trial and error, knowing shame and then courage, and knowing the mistake can improve Mo Dazhen. (Progress = trial and error + modification + re-execution)
9. Don't pin your happiness on others
Don't attach happiness to others, because people will change and love will dissipate. The road to life is always to go by yourself, no one can replace you happiness, no one can pay for your happiness, self-sufficient happiness will not suffer.
10. Don't wait until everything is ready to start
Time, place, and people, everything can be invincible, but such opportunities are often rare. Don't wait until you're ready, because most of the miracles are artificial and then you're in the right place.
11. Don't ignore the subtle touch
The ordinary life, the flash is the subtle touch. Don't ignore every good moment in your life, you never know which second will be the happiest moment of your life.
12. Don't draw conclusions too early
"Sayon loses his horse and knows that he is not a blessing." Don't make too early conclusions about anything. The haze of this moment may be the next second.
"Drawing the skin and painting the bones is difficult to draw the tiger, knowing that people know each other and don't know." Don't make conclusions too early for anyone. The human condition is warm and cold, and the world is hot. You need to be careful to distinguish between good and evil.
13. Don't be afraid of getting hurt and refuse to start
Roman Roland said: There is only one kind of heroism in the world, that is, after seeing the truth of life, still love life.
The real strength is not to be afraid of injury, but to be self-healing after the injury, and to continue to embrace the beginning after the recovery.
14. Don't leave the bad side to your loved one
Our biggest mistake is to give the worst temper and the worst side to the closest person, but to give patience and tolerance to strangers.
15. Don’t humble a person who doesn’t love you.
No matter how much you love someone, you can't humble yourself. The purpose of love is to make you better, not to make you bruise.
Some love is destined to be met, but people who can't wait can't wait, and the world that can't get in is not forced.
16. Don't deceive yourself
It’s much easier to deceive yourself than to deceive others, but it’s much harder to wake yourself than to wake others up. People knowing themselves, seeing themselves, sincerely facing themselves, accepting themselves frankly, can have a broader world.
17. Don't waste time explaining yourself to others again and again
The important person does not have to explain that he naturally understands you; the unimportant person, a thousand words, may not be in his heart. A long road, you just take your own path and take care of his gossip.
18. Don't forget your heart
Don't forget your heart, you have to always. On the way forward, don't forget to stop at regular times and look back at the reasons for the departure.
19. Don't always compare with others
Don't compare your weaknesses with the strengths of others; don't envy other people's possessions and scorn what you have; don't get lost in comparison, don't follow other people's maps to find your own way. There are people outside the sky, you don't have to be better than others, you just need to be better than you used to be.
20. Don't worry about the past.
Past events are like smoke, and the past can't be changed or erased. The heart is like the sea, letting the past pass, can let the beginning begin.
Rousseau said: The person who lives the most meaningful is not the one who has the longest life, but the person who feels the most about life.
May you, perceive life, free and easy.
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