So, I'm supposed to be a doctor, I've had a little bit of misanthropy, and now I have something to say about her. Firstly, the disease is severe, with losses and destruction. And the main thing is that it took a lot of time. Three years (2015-2018). Secondly, it is perhaps a necessary companion to the transition from the youthful perception of life, full of pink unicorns, into adulthood, where the question is ribbed: either you ruin this life, or make it into a candy.
Third, it can be stuck for a long time, or forever, if you do not cultivate during its flow a conscious love for the world, no matter how much the world treats you.
Fourth, it is dangerous. It begins with righteous indignation at the unethical nature of those around you and gradually and imperceptibly becomes just like them, angry and self-centered. So if you don't trace it in time, you become a breeding ground for evil.
And fifthly, it is contagious. Once one starts, others join in, and the misanthropic epidemic begins.
The good news is that during the disease, immunity to disappointment and sober perception of life is formed, which can be clogged only by your own anger.
One of the most important secrets of love for people is in no case to be tired of them. It is best to make this habit in the family. As soon as you are tired of people and want to be alone, you hang on your door ad: "Masha (Petya) makes himself happy, fun and healthy. Do not disturb them.
However, for this, you should have your own door. You can, for starters, make a door out of a cardboard box. It works. Then you can continue by wearing a T-shirt with the inscription on your back, "I'm working very hard. Do not distract. If you can't wear T-shirts at work, you can hang a sign on the back of your chair. And if your work is online, don't answer other people's messages until you feel you can answer without annoyance, that everyone around you is so stupid, and you are D'Artagnan.
And, accordingly, if you started to get irritated, it's imperative that you isolate yourself from people for a while and make yourself happy. And only then will you communicate with them.
It works.
In order not to be able to kill insolent people, this technology is suitable. Imagine that a brazen person is a little ... uh... is not present in this reality. That is, he is in the fog of his movie about you, about the relationship between you, about this reality in general, about himself.
Imagine this pink fog.
Imagine how he floats in this fog, without noticing the reality. And think about what you want to do with a man who fell asleep on the move? Of course, it's worrying for his safety - he'll hit a pole or a car will hit him. So, of course, common sense suggests that maybe it is quite reasonable for him ... uh... pinch him to wake him up?
Or whistle in his ear.
Or pour cold water on him.
But don't kill him, no. He was already lost.
But the most correct way to educate himself and courage is to let him meet his pillars without interfering with the course of events. There are plenty of people here except you who want to pull him by the ear or pour water on him. This option, of course, is not always appropriate, but the wisdom is to learn to distinguish between when it is appropriate, and when not. You should not rush on the wave of great red truth, claiming that there is no one else to deal with education, otherwise to the foam on the lips one step.
There are many bad ways to love people.
1. to love people in a concentrated and concentrated way, seriously and pathologically. Very, very big PSV grows from it.
2) Love people sincerely - let's hold hands and meditate. Bad cover for tunnelers.
3. love people by tearing the shirt off on their chest, ripping out their hearts and passionately illuminating the road for everyone. Get sick, get sick and die spitting on passers-by.
As my favorite teacher used to say, loving people and parents are good for your health.
This is how people should be loved - only for their health. To moderation, in a balanced way, do not let God not overdo it. It is better to dislike even a little bit so that we would like to love more and left enough love for ourselves and for the planet.