In life, we often go to places that are still unknown to us. And this process of getting out of the habitual into unusual new states is accompanied by discomfort, anyway.
What are these new conditions?
For example, one of your tasks is to earn a lot. If you have never had enough money, then you don’t know how it is to be rich. And you think it's easy to imagine being rich? Surely, when you think about it, you will not be twisted like a child. If in doubt, just try and track the sensations.
Or you never spoke to a large audience - but I would like to taste the attention to the speaker. Already uncomfortable?
Many have no idea what it means to be healthy. The domestic industry of the disease is so large and takes so much time (for example, 80 percent) that it is absolutely impossible to refuse it. What will a person do if she stops going to doctors and discussing sores? In the case of older people - absolutely nothing. They will be horrified to present themselves as healthy. Health is a special sensation. It is important for those who have something to do besides health. And if you do nothing, there will be a void that everyone is afraid of.
And what will happen if we abandon the “eternal suffering” inherent, for example, in the fourth enneatype? It will be very unpleasant in the beginning, in fact.
When the familiar ties in our perception of ourselves and reality break down, it becomes very, very uncomfortable.
Even if you need to change something, the unknown scares, stops, annoys.
Some psychotherapeutic modalities suggest that you see yourself in a new capacity (for example, rich, healthy, etc.) and simply merge yourself with this new way. Performing such a trick is not only possible, but also necessary. But no matter how well we introduce ourselves in the future, anyway, “flashing” ourselves is a time-consuming process. And from the old image already mentally left! No return is possible, unless, of course, such a goal is set.
So here. If you change, you will surely fall into the zone of uncertainty. And it seems that one of the tasks of man is not just to learn how to live calmly in a state of certain uncertainty (to enter into a state of complete clarity in the conditions of life on earth, in my opinion, is simply impossible), but to accept it, and I'm not afraid to even say - “ to love. "
I will say to myself. Like everyone else, at first I strained from a similar sense of uncertainty preceding the changes. However, then she found her charms in him.
Firstly, the feeling of uncertainty before an important step is also a feeling of freedom. The old one is definitely gone. And you rest, not yet entangled in new beliefs.
Secondly, a sense of drive and great genuine interest - and what will happen next? This sensation gives a taste of life.
Thirdly, the feeling of new. Novelty is a wonderful vacation for a tired person from a routine. This is real rejuvenating nectar.
Further, a logical question arises: is it so good then, in a new state. Is it worth it to strive for?
I can’t answer: yes. Since it will sound as if you promise the "golden mountains" and lure someone somewhere.
I will describe my feelings. This whole composition "tired of the old - the need for the new - you hang out in the unknown - you scan the space to fill with new - the transition to new connections" - this is all life, this movement, this flight. And therefore it was originally conceived by the Universe not as suffering, but as a buzz. The main thing is to perceive this whole composition as a buzz. And all will be well.