The search for a wider area and a higher level of development is a fundamental need in the life consciousness of people.
Force yourself. To overcome yourself, you have to be more renewed than your past, to force yourself. It is out of competition and needs to be updated than others.
There are many ways to promote the development and application of capacity, but in terms of successful learning, there are basically four aspects, namely "inducement, coercion, practice and learning".
1. "Temptation" is a guide
The search for a larger field and a higher level of development is a fundamental need in people's minds. Consequently, the self-conscious self and the rational self never want to remain in any small or limited state, but always want to continue to evolve in order to achieve greater development, in order to survive better. , This kind of hot and energetic development needs is a harbinger of potential growth. As long as this kind of consciousness is given a useful hint, trigger, planning, and improvement, the potential can very well be moved and released - through "self-projection" and "self-realization."
The self-regulating SOC is the project of realizing the self-potential ideal according to the objective conditions of society and the actual characteristics of the self, so that the self may receive the fullest, the most ideal, the most free, the best and the best.
Self-realization is based on the path of self-projection.After hard work, we can reach our full potential and realize our perfect design, making ourselves the most perfect person.
Self-design is very necessary for itself. Without self-design there will be no manifestations of self-consciousness of the subject, and all practical activity will be blind, so it is impossible to get a good effect. Self-design is the basis of self-realization, which is the basis of success, it is the guiding principle of self-realization: self-realization is the result of self-design, verification, modification and implementation of self-design.
Through the concept of self-projection and self-realization, we see that our "psychology of life" is well connected to Maslow's "levels of need."
From the point of view of life, success is self - realization. The realization of the ultimate goal of life is the greatest self - realization and the greatest innovation. From the point of view of life, the achievement of each goal is self - realization, innovation and success. People are finally aware of themselves in self-realization.
The desire for success is innate, and self-realization intentions are available to everyone, so people from all walks of life can see examples of self-realization, using a huge potential, but most people are not fully aware of their potential. Come out, don't make yourself more evolved. Overall, Maslow estimates only 1% of the winners.
In this regard, Maslow explains: the need for self-realization is at the highest level and is limited by the cultural environment and the adverse effects of the environment of childhood, so it is the most vulnerable and most hinders, most people are afraid of the need for self-realization. Their own understanding, it is easy to abandon the potential of talent in an uncertain state.
The so-called "fear of self-realization requires an understanding of oneself", that is, due to the negative mentality of closing oneself off, not looking at reality, knowing oneself and thus not having (or not knowing) self - projecting-this explains the "mentality" and the importance of the "goal" for success.
Please note that we encourage self-projection and self-realization, not to mention that we must be separated from society and others in order to grow into Immortals. On the contrary, true self-projection must be based on the social environment, a true self-realizer is able to achieve itself in harmonious coexistence with society and others.
At the same time, the contribution of successful people to society is much greater than the contribution of non-beneficiaries. Because their emotional experience is more open and spontaneous, they are also more creative and caring.
2. "Coercion" is persecution
When we lick a friend who once had a heavy mountain and then confession, after a sigh I often ask:
"It's not easy in these years, how did you live?"
"People are displaced." An old friend who has lived through the vicissitudes of life will answer this directly.
When our colleagues have achieved unexpected results in unexpected times, we will be full of respect and a little jealousy:
"I don't think so ... how did you get that?""
"Not everyone has to."
"It's all being repressed." So the number of times I've heard in life is too many, but who ever thought about it. This weak word contains many touching stories and the true meaning of success!
What is "repressed"? This is human potential, human creativity, innovation and development.
"Monkey" became a man, how amazing is not nature "forced"?
In everyday life, there are countless examples of people playing under the" power " of extraordinary intelligence and kinetic energy.
"But Dragon city will fly, don't teach Huma to cross Yingshan," a flying General from the Eastern Han dynasty, Li Guang, known for good shooting. According to historical records, one day Li Guang went hunting and was shocked to see that there was a "tiger"in the grass. In the past it was a large stone, and the arrow did not hit the stone. Then he checked it again, and all the arrows hit the stone.
This is the real story that happened in Japan.
One day a woman went shopping on the street and left her four-year-old child alone at home. When I got back, I met a friend outside an apartment building and stopped talking. Suddenly she discovered that the window on the 12th floor of her house was open and the child climbed up on the windowsill and waved to her mother - it was too late for her to scream and the child had lost a leg - she left her hand and desperately went to the child. Come on (please note: she's wearing a tube and high heels)... As soon as the baby lands, she catches the baby. After that, people conducted an experiment with imitation: throwing a pillow out of a 12th-floor window, let the best firefighters fly from the same distance to save, tried many times, and it is still far away.
New records are created in the competition, and the more intense the competition, the better the results.
When we went to school, we all had this experience: before the exam, the effectiveness of training was the highest.
Man is a complex contradiction, both for the needs of development and for the inertia of the status quo and the past. There are very few people who can be retired and awake. More people need spurs and spurs, and "strength" is the "most natural" way. People often say it means "pressure-force."
So he has to be "helpless" and be blessed.
Either he's "recognized" to trust it, or he's lucky, otherwise he doesn't" impose " on your head. When you have it, others will be lost.
Being forced, the mindset will change if it is forced, it will have clear goals, if it is forced, it will prioritize and seize the time, if it is forced, it will act immediately. If you're not aiming for a breakthrough, you're not innovating, you just want to overcome that hurdle so that potential explosions are driven by the power of rapid buildup like nuclear fusion.
The goal was achieved, the state of "forced" was canceled, and the person developed.
Not only should you not be afraid of "violent, "you should also take the lead"violently." I can't live with myself and I force myself to always be in a good state of tension which is positive, innovative and volatile so my potential is always in a state of excitement. In addition to having this mentality in daily work and study, another challenge is set a higher goal - "force yourself" and improve yourself.
The world's most beloved "problem of self - knowledge," American Caroline Herbad, who is more than half a century old, is the last. The friendly American monk is a physicist's wife and mother of four, and on the other hand a warrior ready to save and save lives around the world. She is the founder and leader of the American disaster relief action group. The purpose of this organization is "search and rescue". Wherever disasters occur at home and abroad, where to go.
In December 1988, there was a strong earthquake in Armenia, which killed more than 50,000 people: buildings, houses, factories, schools were destroyed. Habbad got on a plane to Armenia in a few hours after he heard the news. She and other rescuers spent eight days climbing the ruins, climbing hills several miles below zero, looking for as many people as possible who would like to save
In Carolyn Habbad there are many rescue events. He went to El Salvador and the Philippines after the earthquake, went to The Panama jungle in search of survivors, and in new York and Tennessee to find people affected by bridge breaks, in South Carolina affected by the hurricane; the Site of a train wreck, the site of a fire and flood, the search for rescued lost children, missing hunters and drowning people.
People are touched by her ability to save lives, be brave and be self-sufficient.
When it comes to the harvest and experience of the last 20 years, she said, "I love the tension and excitement that comes with an emergency. When I realize that I am doing something worthwhile, I will Feel some satisfaction and pride. At the crash site, you can see the best side of human nature, and you can see the worst side of human nature. And I was faced with a dilemma. The most important thing I learned is to try life and live new things."
To force yourself, to overcome yourself you need to update more than your past, to force yourself to be out of competition and to be more modern than others. Others cannot think of it, I must think: others dare not think, I dare to think: others dare not do it, I will do it: others cannot do it, I must do it. The power of potential is really great!
Forcing ourselves, on the one hand, we have to be brave enough to accept the challenge, to rush into new conditions, new situations, new challenges and push us into nowhere, we will find ways to break through the water and then we will fight the water and the military law says "put him to death and then give birth". On the other hand, it is necessary to use "self-discipline" for coercion, to use target management, time management for coercion, and to use the results of action for coercion. Innovative behavior is driven by an innovative mind, and results are driven by innovation. Innovation is the beginning of potential and the end of potential.
Human potential also follows the "Matthew effect": the more it is developed and used, the greater and stronger it is.
Viability is reflected in the pressure. Viability is the ability to innovate, that is, creativity, that is, human potential, that is, competitiveness.
To be continued in the next part