"And a groan stands throughout the earth: my dear, what have I done to you?" M. Tsvetaeva Once I read a psychologist’s phrase: no one throws anyone, just one goes forward. Then they told me: both are to blame for the break. It hit me. How so! They left me! They treated me unfairly. This happened during pregnancy, which was especially mean! And only now I understand the essence. Pain Now I am writing these lines in order to partially "close the gestalt," and on the other hand, so that you, abandoned, can easily survive all this...

At least once in our life each one of us has been in a situation, which was dissatisfying or unpleasant for us, and caused suffering and pain. Someone did not get the desired job or did not achieve the goal. Someone had a serious illness or could not build a relationship. When something negative happens to us, we start looking for someone or something to blame. We blame our destiny, our life, the Universe, other people and we waste a lot of time, energy and emotions. Is it worth looking for someone to blame, and what can we do with the problems appearing on our way? Man is a social being...