In life, we often go to places that are still unknown to us. And this process of getting out of the habitual into unusual new states is accompanied by discomfort, anyway. What are these new conditions? For example, one of your tasks is to earn a lot. If you have never had enough money, then you don’t know how it is to be rich. And you think it's easy to imagine being rich? Surely, when you think about it, you will not be twisted like a child. If in doubt, just try and track the sensations. Or you never spoke to a large audience - but I would like to taste the attention to the speaker...

One evening a man called James was on the road from Oxford to London. There weren’t many cars on the road because it was late. Suddenly in the lights of his car he saw a woman by the road – she was quite young and very pretty. ‘It’s dangerous to walk along the road when it’s dark and late,’ he thought. He stopped, opened the window and asked the young woman, ‘Where are you going? It’s dangerous to stand here at night… perhaps I can take you to London with me.’ The young woman didn’t answer but she opened the door of the car and got in...