I think you're drowning in the ambiguity of the information about what kind of women men like. What do men like about women? One will say beauty, the other - a sense of humor, the third - the brain.
And if we ask a man who drinks half his life, he rather likes any woman at all, as long as he was needed by someone.
And how do you derive a common denominator? After all, in order to achieve the desired, you must have at least a rough plan. Do you agree?
And let's condition ourselves. We will talk to you about adequate, modern men and women...