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Hey, guys! I hope you are doing all right❤️ finally I created a group where I'm going to post all the knowledge that I have about the psychology of daily life and, of course, announcements of PsyEngClub! 😊Here is the first announcement 📢 I' d be happy to see in the group and the club, see you there and I say "thank you and 👋" to this group! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ https://t.me/silaznaniya_psy

My dear friends! ❤️ I know, it's been a while since I posted some info. Some situations in the world just made me feel stay connected more with my 👪. Nevertheless, it can't be like this forever and I should do smth with that. I have some plans about PsyEngClub for the upcoming 2023, so just wait for that, news is coming shortly😁 Thank you for being a part of what I call a PsyEngClub 👪, I wish you health, both mental and physical❤️I miss you and see you😘 Happy upcoming New Year🎅

Good morning, PsyEngClub family members 💚 🌨️❄️⛄

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5⃣ Other objects of identification: expectations regarding the future, age, job ,social status, material items (your house, car, phone... ), your desires! 📍The ego’s main characteristics: ❗ The ego tends to equate ‘having’ with ‘being,’ which is why the ego likes to identify with objects ❗The ego lives through comparison itself with other egos! ❗The ego is never satisfied. Your ego always wants more.More fame, more stuff, more recognition😢 ❗The ego likes to stand out. To seek attention, people may also commit crimes, wear eccentric clothes, or have tattoos all over their body ❗If you have famous friends, your ego will associate with them to strengthen its identity ❗ The ego loves to be right. It a great way for it to affirm its existence When people complain, by definition they believe they are right and others are wrong. It works with objects as well. Have you ever bumped into a table and complained or even insulted it? What do you think?)👇 #emotions

4⃣ Your beliefs Your ego also uses beliefs to strengthen its identity 💯In extreme cases, people become so attached to their beliefs they are ready to die to protect them🙄 Worse still, they are willing to kill people who disagree with them. 📍Religion is a perfect illustration of the dangers of excessive attachment to beliefs. The ego will use any belief to strengthen🥊 its identity, whether these beliefs are religious, political, or metaphysical #emotions

3⃣ Friends/acquaintances The ego also derives its sense of identity from your relationships with others❗The ego is only interested in what it can get from others. In other words, the ego thrives on the way it can use people to strengthen its identity If you are honest with yourself, you’ll realize most of the things you do are attempts to obtain the approval🙋‍♀️ of others: you want your parents to be proud of you, your boss to respect you, and your wife to 😍 you 📍Some parents’ egos lead to the creation of a strong sense of attachment and identification with their children. This is based on the false belief their children are their ‘possessions’ 📍The feeling of needing someone (couples) is very much a play of the ego as well Anthony de Mello says: "Loneliness is not cured by human company. Loneliness is cured by contact with reality, by understanding that we don’t need people" Once you realize you don’t actually need anyone, you can start enjoying people’s company😉 #emotions

2⃣ Your body Most people derive their self-worth from their physical appearance Your ego loves the way you look because it is the easiest thing to recognize and quantify. When you strongly associate with your physical appearance, you tend to identify more easily with physical and emotional pain. Believe it or not, you can observe your body without ‘identifying with’ it

MASTER YOUR EMOTIONS 8 Now, let’s look at some of the things your ego identifies with to strengthen its identity: 1️⃣ Physical items The ego likes to identify with physical things Marketers perfectly understand people’s need to identify with things❗ They know people don’t just buy a product, they also buy the emotions or story attached to the product. Often, you buy certain clothes or a particular 🚙 because you want to tell a story about yourself. For instance, you may want to enhance your status, look cool or express your unique personality, and choose the products most closely associated with these ideals This is how the ego works😁It uses things to create a story you can identify with. It’s a negative issue only when you become overly attached to things, believing they can fulfill you— which they can’t🚫 #emotions

#funnysunday good 🌃, friends💤

MASTER YOUR EMOTIONS 7 Your ego is a selfish entity☝️ only concerned about its own survival Interestingly, it’s rather similar to your brain🧠 in the way it operates. It has its own survival mechanism and will do whatever it can to persist! As with your brain, its primary concern is neither your happiness nor your peace of mind. On the contrary, your ego is restless It wants you to be a go-getter. It wants you to do, have and achieve great things so you can become a ‘somebody.’ As we already mentioned, your ego needs an identity to exist. The way it does that is through identification with things, people, or beliefs and ideas (we'll talk about this later) 📌Note that the ego is neither good nor bad, it’s just a result of a lack of self-awareness. It fades away as you become aware of it, since ego and awareness cannot coexist #emotions

Good morning, guys!🌨️ #quoteoftheday