For many years, humanity has faced and faces global challenges that it will have to solve for its survival:
1) Problems of peace and war, violence in society
2) exhaustion of resources
3) pandemics, complex diseases
4) potential threats of natural, man-made,
space and other disasters.
5) problems of social, financial, other inequality
6) other calls
Why do people carry out physical, military, psychological violence, other violence on each other for centuries? This question must be answered by mankind so as not to perish in wars and in other violence.
People tend to compete with each other in different areas: physical strength, military strength, material enrichment, compete in ideas, other manifestations of the mind, sports, status competition and others. The reason for the desire of people to compete in something can be either human nature (dominance) , and / or the presence of an information field that encourages people to compete with each other in different areas. Not only individuals play king of the hill, but also states, peoples, organizations.
To understand the causes of people's behavior, you need to turn to their childhood. Many grievances of people from childhood. The behavior and thinking of people is greatly influenced by the information field. The information field is created by the media, bloggers, and the people themselves.
In addition to the information field, the minds of children are influenced by teachers, nannies, parents, relatives, and the environment of children. Communication is a very important aspect. Few people know how to communicate properly. Often people through communication export aggression, arrogance, anger, and other vices. There is no such subject as communication in schools and universities. One might think that it is so simple that it does not need to be taught. Through communication, people export the game of king of the hill: who is the smartest, strongest, richest, handsome, successful, healthy, and so on.
This is where one of the main problems of mankind lies. People play king of the hill in childhood, then they grow up and again begin to prove to each other who is the most important, strong, rich, successful. The scope of this phenomenon is increasing to organizations, peoples, states. An extreme form of expressing one's superiority is the use of physical and military force.
How to do so in order to wean people to compete, including with the use of humiliation in relation to each other?
Parents, relatives, nannies, and teachers should talk about this with children. Such a subject as communication should appear. People can also create their own blogs and broadcast ideas of correct communication and thinking through them. What are these ideas?
You need to communicate in such a way that your interlocutor does not feel worse than you in something. If you humiliate him morally or physically, then he will also later or immediately humiliate you in one way or another in one form or another. This is how endless cascades of revenges are launched between people, organizations, nations, states, different groups, between men and women. Children and adults need to be explained in detail why it is not profitable for them to humiliate someone even if they think that they are stronger, richer, more status, belong to a larger and stronger group. If someone had a very influential grandfather, this does not mean that the grandson will not be a drug addict, for example. And it could be difficult to get close to the grandfather, but those people whom he, for example, declassed or tried to do, will take revenge on his grandson.
What is the phenomenon of shooters? If they are capable and mentally healthy, then the meaning of their revenge comes down to the fact that they take revenge from someone for themselves, their environment, for their people, country, organization, idea, some of their values .
Here is some group in school, army, prison humiliates and beats someone, then the shooter takes revenge. Is it profitable to humiliate someone? No.
Efficiently and profitably seek a platform for mutually beneficial cooperation. It is effective, profitable during communication to export goodwill, adequacy, competence, to be on an equal footing with everyone and not to assert oneself at the expense of others. Then in most cases you will get the same answer.
By exporting the right communication ideas, you can not only survive in school, prison, the army, in life, but also acquire a large social circle.
The same is true at the global level. The USA (we are talking about the current US government, the people and the government have different interests) is a kind of strong bully who does not consider anyone, respects anyone, does no good for anyone, all his vassals keeps by military force and bribery of political elites. Therefore, other countries begin to unite against the bully. The process of humiliation can be expressed not only in words, but in other actions. There was once a case when the president of one country languished in a common corridor, waiting for the president of another country to call him. This is also a humiliation. Someone calls, they don’t pick up the phone, then they don’t call back. Some people may also see this as a humiliation. Or, let's say they invited people to some event, but one group sat down in better places, another group may be offended by this. Or, for example, a woman lines up men to do some actions in her favor. There are a lot of such nuances. You need to delve into and understand them. Even not observing the nuances can lead to conflict or ignoring each other.
States also humiliate each other, try to control each other, use each other for their own benefit. No one will like it. Conflicts begin to form because of trifles on a moral level, and all this can end in an endless war and a cascade of endless mutual revenges. A person, organization, state can start some kind of conflict thinking that nothing will happen to anyone for this. But in fact, this rarely happens, just sometimes, people, organizations, states do not have the opportunity to get revenge right away, and it will be postponed.
Recently, many wrote that they are not mobilizing the people of Kiev, Muscovites, St. Petersburg, and government officials. All these are attempts to take revenge on the conditionally poor from the conditionally richer ones. If all the people of Kiev, Muscovites, St. Petersburg, representatives of the authorities are poor, homeless, unemployed, then the issue of their mobilization will not be relevant for the media and individuals. After all, the issue of mobilizing homeless people from railway stations is of no interest to anyone at all. From here, draw conclusions.
Such comparisons as rich / poor, smart / stupid, strong / weak, lucky / loser should not be used if possible. If you use these words in communication, you will most likely make enemies for yourself. It seems that I am writing elementary things, but this is not respected .It must be said that every person, nation, state has its own way, everyone is good in their own way. You don't need to push your foreheads against anyone with your comparisons. The wolf runs, the fish swims, the bird flies, they do not find out among themselves who is stronger, more correct, better, and do not even think about it.
Another way to avoid violence and conflict is to have no one in public
Don't judge or compare. Especially children. I remember at school we were friends, 6 people, sometimes interfered with the lessons. And our class teacher did not like it. And for some reason he came to every lesson, said the six (in the sense of six people) got up, we got up and he asked all the teachers how we were behaving.
Then he quit. Let's analyze the mistakes of this teacher. He condemned the students, at that time children, in public, he opposed himself and the company of 6 people, as well as this company to the rest of the class, as well as other teachers.
He could call everyone to his office or six people at once. He could ask teachers about the behavior of students at recess or at the end of the school day. Instead, he arranged some kind of public show that no one would like. Not every child is ready to be publicly ridiculed, condemned, criticized. Yes, adults too. And there are many such examples. People need to be told we are a team, we are doing an important job, one for all and all for one, we will help each other. School grades, honor boards, public announcement of salaries and other inequalities need to be removed. So there will be no teams, everyone will be for himself, there will be a war of all against all, there will be aggression.
In the business of tables of the best sellers, traders need to be removed, this leads to unhealthy competition. I do not understand the concept of healthy competition.
Is this where everyone loves each other and sincerely wishes each other good luck? Well maybe mom and dad in
they wish it. In other cases, competition, opposition is negative for people, and these models of human interaction must be abandoned.
The attention of people from the corridor of competition of all against all and the war of all against all, in one form or another, needs to be switched to creative, creative activity on a global scale.
The sources of social tension are the relations: state-citizen, employer-employee, man-woman. There is also a lot of tension in relations between states. Beneficiaries and those who bear moral, financial, legal, physical, and other damage are visible in these relations. The exploiters and the exploited are also visible in these relations. These relations contain potential violence in one form or another, including military violence (as the end point of the use of violence). Other forms of interaction between people, peoples, organizations, and countries are needed. The exploited simply will not change the system at once, including by physical and military force. Some exploiters will be replaced by others, they can change the forms of exploitation so as not to cause new protests. I see a way out in changing the rating system and moving on to solving global problems.
People seek dominance in various local and global areas because other people pay attention to it and recognize the value of someone dominating in this or that area. Champions are given gold medals, women line up behind champions, champion scores often go up. If society does not react in any way to champions, then there is no reason to become a champion. Here a champion appears somewhere, he is the strongest, richest, handsome and so on. But no one appreciates these qualities of his, someone ignores him, he does not benefit from his status and the status depreciates. People will not strive to be rich and dominate someone if society does not give a backlash to this. Society, by its reaction or lack of it, can make any person, any nation, organization, state a champion. But society can also deprive anyone of titles. Money , power, dominance are not values in themselves, these cults exist only thanks to the backlash of society and the information field that these cults provide. both individually and all together. When global world projects receive a global, global, feedback from society, there will be a reassessment of values and meanings.
Society will leave the corridor of logic, in which champions, dominance, power, money and, as a result, competition, aggression, violence, war for these resources, statuses, are very important, to the corridor of logic, where you need to create large, international teams of people to solve problems on a global scale. What will happen to you if your neighbor eats, travels more than you, if you are a member of a team that will soon cure people of incurable diseases, or you are a member of a team that has resurrected dried-up rivers, restored a forest, or you are a member of a team that created such a line of food, thanks to which people stopped getting sick, began to live for a hundred years?
Participation in global projects and large teams makes all people in demand, including pensioners, the disabled, lonely people, orphans. Anyone can participate in the salvation of humanity. .People will not compete and fight, not honor champions, power, money, but will be engaged in creativity and solving big problems.
Let's summarize.
1) In society, the world there is violence, war because there is competition between everyone, there are comparative, evaluation categories between people, peoples, organizations, states. It is possible for society to use comparative evaluation categories in relation to individuals, peoples, organizations, states is the biggest systemic error, the fatal mistake of mankind.
2) Society gives a backlash to competition, power, money, domination. A child often stops messing around if he does not receive a backlash
3) Society by the presence / absence of a backlash can deprive old cults of meaning and give meaning to new cults
4) Society cannot think about anything, so the thoughts of society need to be switched to solving global problems
5) To ensure their status, people, peoples, organizations, states use, among other things, moral, legal, physical, military violence. Such statuses need to be devalued, deprived of meaning by the presence / absence of a backlash from society and the creation of a new information field.
6) These statuses have evaluation and comparative categories. Comparisons such as:
rich/poor
important/not important
strong / weak
beautiful / scary
successful / not successful
winners / losers
favorites/outsiders
it is necessary to stop using it in all languages of the world and send it to the archive for storage.
Such comparisons cause moral suffering, aggression in people, peoples, organizations, states, provoke endless cascades of revenges of all against all, a war of all against all.
7) It is necessary to spare people's egoism, people's own self-image, not encroach on these areas. This can be achieved by abandoning comparatively evaluative judgments, assumptions, and conclusions.
8) From the Internet you need to remove the number of views, likes, comments. This creates competition, and therefore aggression, suffering with all the ensuing events.
Children cry only because
they gave one candy more, or paid less attention. The child compares himself with another child and receives suffering, internal aggression. Adults often behave like children. But they hide many of their feelings, their true motives for thinking and behavior in order to fit into the comparatively evaluative categories of other people. While people are doing this, global tasks are not solved.
9) modern cults (power, money, beauty, strength, dominance in various areas) exist not only with the help of the presence / absence of a backlash from society, but also with the help of the information field that broadcasts these cults through the media, films, music, bloggers and give them meaning.
10) to solve global problems and save humanity, new cults are needed, a new information society, a backlash from society that will give them meaning.
New cults: ecology, health, world peace, recognition for every person, nation, organization, state of its uniqueness, self-sufficiency, importance for solving global problems, lack of competition and comparison.
11) competition and comparisons hinder the creation of large nationwide, nationwide groups of people to solve global problems.
12) the backlash of society is most clearly manifested in the sphere of the economy. Society buys what destroys it (alcohol, cigarettes, drugs, food). If it doesn't buy it, it won't be produced. Also with ideas. Only those ideas to which society gives a backlash live. To get a job, workers line up, agree to work without a contract, wait for months for a salary, and are ready for processing. That is, the workers themselves create a cult of work and the employer.
If the queues for work are abandoned, if employees create competition for themselves among several employers, if they do not agree with any proposals of the employer by default, if they lobby their own interests too, then the cult of work and the employer will quickly disappear. An employer without a team of good employees has no great value.
Or, for example, some men line up for women and by default agree to any of their conditions, only
if women chose them. This is how a cult of women is created. If you refuse to queue for women, lobby your own interests too, create competition for yourself, then the cult of women will quickly disappear, as well as excess potential, air value.
But there is no time for this, this is a departure to the side.
The main solution to global problems. In a global society, new cults will take people's attention, and old cults will not be able to exist without the attention of society
13) Not only specialists in a particular field can and should solve global problems.
Doctors, ecologists, economists, teachers, and other specialists could not solve all the problems that they face. They need reinforcement in the form of millions of minds that will solve problems together with them. Many inventors were originally ordinary people, then they came up with something useful for humanity. The more millions of minds of people will solve global problems,
the faster and better they can be solved in favor of humanity.
14) globalists and green peace are engaged in politics. This article is not about them. The globalists are a minority who want to rule the world for their own purposes, for their own benefit, to the detriment of the majority. The whole world works for the globalists. Inflation is what the banks feed on, and the globalists stand behind the banks.
15) You will either form a new information field in which the highest values will be peace, health, longevity, ecology, solving global problems, family values, mutually beneficial cooperation,
or you will live in an information field that provides: the entry of toxic substances into your internal organs, violence, competition, competition, suffering, war, water shortage, rising prices, serving other people's interests and participating in other people's competitions to the detriment of your health, life, life expectancy, quality of life.
16) tools for creating a new information field: chats, world-class conferences, blogging in telegram, vkontakte, youtube, rutube, yandex zen, instagram, other platforms, communication with people around. There is no need to rush and show aggression towards the old information field. All who provide the old information are potential allies and partners in the creation of a new field.
You can come up with other tools for creating a new information field.
You can give and not give a feedback, talk about something and not talk about it, think about something and not think about it, buy something and not buy it, strive for something and not strive for it. All this matters for the informational fields.
17) People cannot be separated and pushed against each other if people are in large, interstate, interethnic, interracial, interreligious, intergender groups that solve problems that are important both to each individual member of the group and to all of humanity as a whole. Try to strangle with laws, harassment, information attack, violence a group that solves the problems of curing humanity from all diseases, and perhaps tomorrow you or your loved ones will fall ill with this disease. , conducts information work with the population, representatives of industry, agriculture in order to rationally use water, and perhaps there will be no water in your tap tomorrow. Try to push someone in military conflicts and perhaps tomorrow you will see an atomic mushroom in the window of your house. The forest is cut down - chips fly.
Epilogue.Dear friends around the world, see you in the new world of kindness, love, joy, longevity, creativity, creativity, clean air, clean water, clean food, many millions of hectares of forests!)
Article author:Dmitry Kutepov