Small talk can be an important part of a conversation, but what is it? Small talk is a chit chat about some general things. It is a good conversation starter which helps to break the ice, make a connection and see if a person you are talking to is in a good mood. It is also a good way to pass the time in certain situations, for example, when you are standing in a queue.
What topics are good for small talk? First of all, you can always start with such questions as “How are you?”, “How's it going?”, “How's life?” Of course, these questions seem trite, but they help to understand if a person feels like talking to you.
The weather can be another good neutral topic for small talk. You can ask the following questions “Lovely day, isn't it?” “Enjoying the weather we've been having lately?” It may seem mundane, but it can open up other topics.
If you want to get to knowa person, discuss their hobbies and interests. Tell them about that fascinating book you have read recently and find outthis person's preferences. It is always a good idea to discuss entertainment, especially movies and music. Make your conversation an exchange of information and learn more about this person.
Almost everyone likes eating, that is why food can be a great topic to discuss. You can ask a person for recommendations for local restaurants or ask what their favorite dish is.
If you know that someone has pets, ask about them! People love talking about their pets, and this topic is sure to make the atmosphere more relaxed.
Sensitive topics are not discussed while making small talk. You can find yourself in an awkward conversation if you discuss such topics as finances, politics and religion, health and appearance.
Remember to always stay friendly, polite and avoid controversial topics. Too personal questions can make another person feel uncomfortable.
Glossary
- small talk – легкая, светская беседа
- to make small talk – вести светскую беседу
- a conversation – разговор
- chit chat – болтовня
- to break the ice – «растопить лед», разрядить обстановку (при знакомстве)
- to pass the time – скоротать, убить время
- a queue – очередь
- a topic – тема
- a sensitive topic – деликатная тема
- trite – банальный
- to feel like doing something – иметь желание сделать что-либо
- mundane – обыденный, неинтересный
- to get to know smb – познакомиться с кем-то
- fascinating – увлекательный, захватывающий
- to find out – узнать
- a preference – предпочтение
- entertainment – развлечение
- exchange of information – обмен информацией
- relaxed atmosphere – непринужденная атмосфера
- to find oneself in – оказаться в
- awkward – неловкий
- to avoid – избегать
- controversial – спорный, противоречивый