If my question "Why?" or "What for?" is answered, "It is necessary.", then immediately follows the question "Who needs it?". Although, in most cases, this is due to an attempt to evade an obsessive request.
Until a certain age, I was calm about the statement "in your age you should not dare to have your own judgment". But, since I never received an answer to the question, when will such years come when my opinion will be taken into account, in time it turned into nihilism when all statements began to be questioned. Until now, there is a habit of sometimes not rushing to express my opinion, but at the same time, a habit of questioning everything has developed.
Before you do something, you need to think first. From this point of view, it is quite logical to demand an explanation of the need to fulfill the request, because if I do not understand why I should do this, then I will do it without thinking. And who will then be responsible for this? Why let someone control me? I thought myself whether I decided to do it myself or not. In most cases, there is no time for long thinking, and decisions are made based on instincts or principles, but these are my principles and my decisions.
In the vast majority of cases, the main defining argument or reason is "I want".
Everybody gets what he wants. If someone wants a million, then he gets a million. If someone says that he wants to get a million, it means that he does not want to get a million, in fact, he only wants to talk about it but does not want to do anything. If someone thinks that he wants to get a million, it means that he only wants to think about it. If he wants to do something, he does it, if he doesn’t want to, he doesn’t do it. Earn, ask, take without asking, cheat, steal or do nothing - everyone chooses their path. And this path is chosen only based on one's own "I want".