But, this does not mean at all that you should indulge your desires. When a human gives in to his desires, it is sometimes said that he behaves like an animal, although this is more of an insult to the animal, because even animals do not always follow their desires.
A human being is a very fragile organism. There is a very small range of temperatures in which the human body does not need additional protection. If the temperature is below the permissible range, the body may die, if the temperature is above the permissible range, the body will die. With atmospheric pressure the same thing - a decrease or increase will lead to death. The mixture of inhaled air must also contain certain proportions, more carbon dioxide - death, less or more oxygen — death. The only thing that does not threaten human life is the level of ethyl alcohol in the water. But with water, as well as with everything else: a little water - the death of the body, and if there is a lot of water, then this can also lead to death. And this applies to any substance consumed by a human - only a small amount does not threaten a body's life. In addition, the body must constantly consume some substances, because their lack can lead to death. How could a human survive in such conditions? - mystery.
The external environment constantly attacks a human, and if he does not defend himself, he will die. The best of defense is attack. Although aggression is condemned, it is essential for survival. Aggression is condemned mainly by those against whom it is manifested, and the aggressor himself does not at all think that aggression is bad until he himself becomes a victim of aggression.
If there is a neighbor, then there should be a fence that defines the border. And if there is a fence, then there is a desire to move it, to increase own area, and thereby reduce the area of a neighbor. Even if the fence doesn't move, it doesn't mean that there is no desire to move it. Everyone should decide what to do with this desire, the main thing is that this desire should not interfere with life.
There are many people, and everyone is constantly trying to define or expand their boundaries, thus reducing other people's boundaries. And it will not work otherwise, if you do not want to reduce other people's boundaries, then get ready to reduce your own. Temporarily, you can make concessions, but only if such concessions do not threaten body life, otherwise the instinct of self-preservation will demonstrate the body's ability to aggression.
Aggressiveness or tolerance - which is better? Each of us has to search for the answer to this question constantly.