The technique is simple, the main thing is to overcome the gag reflex.
What is deep blowjob
Typical blowjob techniques are based on caresses with the mouth, tongue and lips. And with a deep penis all the way into the mouth and fills the throat.
Not all couples practice this type of sex. One difficulty interferes - the gag reflex. Because of him, many people think that such tricks are best left to porn stars. But in fact, everyone can learn deep blowjob techniques. You just need to practice.
How to prepare for a deepthroat
Relax
To begin with, you should prepare yourself mentally. If you have any fears and concerns, try to get rid of them, otherwise during sex you will not be able to relax and have fun.
Remember, if you don't like it, you can always stop. Don't be afraid to look awkward or do something wrong - it is unlikely that everything goes perfect the first time.
Exercise
It is not necessary to immediately practice on a man. Try it on a dildo. Attach it to the table so that it is comfortable for you, and get started. The more often you train, the sooner you will be able to apply the skill with a partner.
Overcome the gag reflex
It appears when the phallus enters the throat. You will need time and training. The throat should get used to the feeling of fullness. Try the following:
- Take a dildo in your mouth and slowly move it towards your throat.
- When it touches the palate and the walls of the throat, a gag reflex will appear - spasms and coughing. Try to relax and suppress it without removing the dildo.
- Breathe through your nose and concentrate on relaxing your throat. Sometimes nausea will appear, ignore it.
- Wait at least 10 seconds with the dildo in your mouth. Don't try to move it yet.
- Repeat this exercise two to three times a day for a week. After that, you will feel that the gag reflex is weakening, and your throat is no longer as sensitive. Now you can go further - make movements with your mouth back and forth.
- This can increase the gag reflex. But it's very important to stay calm and carry on. Pick a comfortable pace. Slow at first, but faster over time.
- After a few weeks, the gag reflex will decrease to the point where you can easily insert a dildo down your throat. Spasms and coughs will disappear.
Take care of safety
Without this, sex is unlikely to be comfortable. Before having sex, do the following:
- Stock up on a water-based oral lubricant. Sometimes saliva is not enough as a lubricant, which can cause discomfort during penetration.
- Remember to wear a condom. Oral sex, although considered safer than vaginal or anal sex, has its risks. Some sexually transmitted diseases can be transmitted4 Things You Didn’t Know About Oral Sex in this way. For example, HIV, herpes, syphilis, gonorrhea, human papillomavirus and viral hepatitis.
- Make sure your partner takes a shower. An unpleasant smell during a blow job can cause gagging. And you are unlikely to get pleasure from the process.
How to do a deep blowjob
You already know the basics: you need to act in the same way as during training. But for a thrill, you can add some interesting techniques.
Technique 1
Take the penis in your hand at the base, lips close on the head. Move your mouth from side to side. Think of the way you shake your head when you say no — it looks the same. Continue moving your penis gradually towards your throat.
Technique 2
Take the penis in your mouth, holding your hand at the base. Make a forward motion so that the penis enters only to the middle. Repeat several times. Then abruptly drop downward, introducing the phallus to the very end. Continue alternating frictions.
Technique 3
Go down from the head of the penis to its base, making circular movements, as if in a spiral, and return in the same way.
What positions are suitable for a deep blowjob
Try everything and choose the most convenient for you.
On the knees
Classic blowjob pose. The man stands, and the partner kneels. This option is convenient in that you can look into the eyes, and also caress the scrotum with your hands. Place a pillow or blanket under your knees to avoid bruising.
This is a great position for the first deepthroat: you don't have to twist, your head is right in front of your partner's groin.
Sitting
The man sits down on a bed or chair, leans back slightly and spreads his legs. The partner sits on the floor between his legs. As in the previous position, the woman is kneeling. But at the same time, he can rest his hands or elbows on the bed.
Lying down
The partner lies on his back, slightly spreads his legs. The girl settles on her stomach so that her head is opposite the groin. In this position, hands are free, you can caress a man's belly.
Long hair sometimes gets in the way in this position. It is better to put them in a ponytail.
Pose 69
One of the most popular and convenient options because both partners can fondle each other.
On the side
This is a variation of pose 69. Only now the partners are lying on their sides.
Prisoner
This position is dominated by a man: the woman lies down on the bed, and the partner kneels in front of her face. In this case, it is he who moves - it will be difficult for the girl to do it with her mouth. But she can caress the stomach, thighs, buttocks and scrotum.
Jackhammer
The partner sits on the floor with his back to the man, and he stands over her. The woman's head is slightly thrown upwards and is between his thighs. The pace is set by the partner - he moves, squatting slightly and straightening his legs. The girl at this time can not only take the penis in her mouth, but also caress the scrotum and hips.