Very often men begin to convince potential partners that they are faithful in relationships and perfect in everything, but the more they convince, the less the girl begins to believe everything that was said before. Often vows have the opposite effect because they cast an even greater shadow of doubt and make one wary. The more vows a man "throws in", the less truth "roll out" of his mouth.
! It is worth noting: a woman's confidence - is the basis of the relationship with a man. On the trust, everything is built: from the desire to go for a walk, to the desire to have children from this man. !
To break the ice of distrust, you need to use special phrases counter persuasion.
When such phrases are used, there is a mirror effect, i.e. the man says the phrases to the girl:
"I trust you."
"Because I trust you."
Thus you are ahead of the game, you do not ask to trust you, but you show that you trust your partner. Since trust is a value for the girl, she will automatically, on a subconscious level, begin to trust you. Mirror neurons work, according to the principle: "If he trusts me, then he also needs to trust you. There is another reason why this phrase works for the girl. The girl can subconsciously decide that you have the same "Cockroaches in the head", or rather, the trauma of betrayal, and this unites well.
! Safety Technique. !
The phrases above apply only on occasion. They are woven into the conversation and used rarely, your intuition will tell you when and in what situation to apply them. Frequent use of the phrases levels the effect, and can also cause a backlash.