Jealousy is a universal feeling which, if exasperated, can represent an obstacle for love in any type of relationship. Advice for all signs on how to live it with balance.
Aries
You are jealous because you love to be the first to reach every new goal and relationship, you can't stand that others can have access to what you want. To live jealousy with balance , think about the past: in which cases letting yourself go to extreme jealousy and envy has brought you good experiences? It certainly never happened, so try to behave differently: even if you grew up with jealous people, you can create a "family" of loved ones linked only by happiness.
Bull
You are jealous because you are possessive and everything you look at becomes yours, especially if it is about people you love. To live jealousy with balance, practice being always lucid and focus on the positive feelings you want to cultivate in your relationships, choosing three to practice every day. Whenever you let yourself go to a jealousy out of habit or instinct, add a positive feeling to your list.
Gemini
Are you jealous? Well usually not too much. A little you don't care to be because you don't know possessiveness , a little you can't afford it, because you often juggle your loved ones. However, you happen to change your mind about behaviors and habits, also based on what is awakened in you thanks to the people you meet. To live jealousy with balance, spend more time alone to understand how you want to be and act from time to time in your relationships.
Cancer
You are jealous and insecure, unfortunately you frequently let yourself go to negative feelings . You are afraid of losing control of the relationship and that other people become involved in the relationship. To live jealousy with balance, whenever the emotion overwhelms you, hold an inner meeting where you welcome all your feelings and give them meaning. Get to grips with your fears and then decide to put them aside for a while, especially when they are unfounded.
Lion
You are jealous because you love to dominate the scene and you need to always be the center of attention . In love you are very passionate, you demand a lot from the other, you want continuous demonstrations of being at the center of his thoughts. To live jealousy with balance, do not have too many expectations on the behavior of others and imagine yourself as if you have reached the maximum of joy in love and in all relationships: in this way you will have more elements to understand who you want to become.
Virgin
You are jealous in a preventive way . When you decide to open your heart, you would like everything to work perfectly and you are afraid that something bad can always happen. Even at work you do not give yourself peace, you are very competitive and self-critical. To live jealousy with balance, try to expect the best from your days and relationships with others. This positive attitude will give happiness the opportunity to reach you in multiple forms.
Libra
You are jealous in an elegant but firm way: very dependent on the opinion of the partner , you are afraid in turn that will disappoint you. For this reason, as soon as you have the opportunity, try to exercise some control, in a more or less subtle way. To live jealousy with balance, ask yourself what makes you special and sure of yourself. Although it can be rewarding to have ties, you need to base your happiness on who you are and what you choose to live every day.
Scorpio
Are you jealous? A lot . People you love, because you have selected them very carefully and are afraid of losing them. Work, because you always fear that someone else you worked for with such dedication will be snatched from someone else. To live jealousy with balance, in relationships and at work have fun and do what you are convinced, without wearing out and competing with others. If the other does something that hurts your pride, try to understand his motives.
Sagittarius
You are jealous in a moderate way. For you, jealousy is a sign that you care about the other person: you welcome it as you do with all your feelings, but by character you will never transform it into possessiveness. To live jealousy with balance, face all its manifestations with honesty and wisdom, as you are capable. If you have great ideals in this sense, share them and put them into practice, to create a more peaceful present and future for you and those around you. You are jealous in a moderate way. For you, jealousy is a sign that you care about the other person: you welcome it as you do with all your feelings, but by character you will never transform it into possessiveness. To live jealousy with balance, face all its manifestations with honesty and wisdom, as you are capable. If you have great ideals in this sense, share them and put them into practice.
Capricorn
You are jealous because, even if you have great skills, you always feel inadequate and look at other people as if they had all those qualities that you lack. To live jealousy with balance, you understand that what you admire in others, you simply want to develop it in your life. Accept that existence has already approved us at birth, giving us a place in the world: in the relationship with others we always have something to offer, our uniqueness.
Aquarius
Are you jealous? Yes, it also happens to you but without ever admitting that you are prey to this feeling, because you consider personal freedom and that of others sacred. You don't know envy, you are selfless and at the same time too aware of your worth to fear confrontation. To live jealousy with balance, you just need to allow yourself to experience it, remaining yourself. You know well how to be involved and at the same time leave others autonomy of action.
Pisces
You are jealous because you live the relationship with the other in a totally fusional way. You need to build a safe world where loved ones continually confirm their affection for you. If this does not happen as you expect, you get scared and prefer to go away in order not to suffer. To live jealousy with balance, strive to overcome the fear of being abandoned. If the other leaves, it is because the relationship is no longer functional to the growth of both.
The colors associated with jealousy
The writer William Shakespeare in his work "Othello" defines jealousy "the monster with green eyes". Why really greens? Green is one of the shades of bile, which is connected to the expression of anger, but the processes of putrefaction are also green: in both cases, these are extreme conditions that well reflect the sufferings of the jealous. Another color associated with jealousy is yellow, to the point that in England the expression "wearing yellow socks" is used, to indicate being jealous of a person. There are several hypotheses for this choice, but even in this case the most likely connection is that with anger, represented by yellow, one of the colors of bile.