How interesting it is in life...
In order to turn your life into a fairy tale and fulfill your dreams, you just need to change your mind, believe in yourself. All changes in reality always start with the internal changes in yourself.
Lena had everything as usual, just like in other families. Dad and Mom are at work, and Lena and her sister have school. She learned to read herself at the age of 4. Parents took the success of their girls for granted. And they were mostly busy making money. The house of love and care was very lacking. There was no warm relationship when they kissed, they said they loved me.
Now parents are 10 years old as divorced. Their relations worsened every year, Daddy began often drink at work. And when I came home like this, it was disgusting to see him. Because of this, there were scandals in the family. And Lena still does not understand how to sink to this, and now does not accept alcohol. When the older sisters began to live separately, Lena also had a great desire to escape from home, away from her mother's control.
She specifically entered a university in a neighboring town. She began to work part-time already in her third year, a scholarship and a part-time job. It was very happy and gave me more freedom! And after the fourth year of study I started to work constantly in a pharmacy. Then the sales manager, the money became even more! Lena had time to work and write her diploma. Since then, her income has increased, and she has moved to another company, where she has been receiving twice as much.
Immediately after graduation, Lena got married. Both of them were not ready for such a responsibility, and disagreements ensued. Mostly about the money. His husband was happy that he, as a young specialist, did not receive much. Whereas Lena, with more effort and perseverance, received a higher salary!
If she makes money, and they have enough money, why would he bother? Everything is already good.
Lena thought differently and tried to push her husband to do more. But her arguments worked badly. They finally broke up when Lena wanted more opportunities and decided to move to another city. And he didn't want to go anywhere from his parents. She went to live in Moscow and started a new life.
You are about to start a new life! After moving, Lena met a man who later became her second husband. Lena wanted children very much, and he did not mind. As a result, they signed almost before the birth of the child, so that there were no problems with documents. We lived together for 8 years.
While Lena was on maternity leave, her husband provided for her. It was terrible financially, she was not used to it. There was not enough money for a lot of things, her husband's earnings were intermittent. Lena supported him as much as she could. And he quarreled with the management and went "free floating", earning money on construction and repair. The first debts appeared.
They were forced to move out of the apartment they rented and move in with his parents. The house is private, all the amenities on the street. But Lena held on, not hysterical. On the contrary, how could she support her husband. As soon as the child turned 2 years old, Lena, unable to stand it, got a job, and gave her son to kindergarten. She was ready to pay for rented accommodation as long as she lived separately.
At that time, it was bad for her to work in the city. And it was very difficult to go to Moscow when you have a small child in your arms. No matter how hard Elena tried, nothing changed. Debts were still growing, plus problems with mutual understanding. Lena helped her husband a lot, but something still didn't work out. In the end, at Lena's initiative, they left. Husband still lives with his parents, he also has a lot of debts, and Lena and her son are renting a house.
The beginning of a new life again! At the time of our acquaintance, she was working as a marketing analyst for an animal good's company. Lena liked her position. Analyzing and working with numbers was a pleasure. I liked the growth. Life was very busy, and there was an extra thing to do. Lena was interested in personal growth and did not stop developing. She got along well with her son, they understood each other well. And, of course, she really wanted to build a relationship where she wouldn't pull everything off. I wanted to meet a strong man who wouldn't beg for money and spend time at the TV, and who wouldn't have to be pushed constantly, and he would want to strive for goals.
Read on to the next part.