Many of you have noticed in your life that some of your friends try to avoid you, not to invite you to holidays and celebrations. In a word, they don't behave the way you would like them to.
Why don't people like you sometimes
- People don't like you - complain about everything and everyone, trying to make you feel sorry
Most normal people won't complain to anyone they meet about a ballpoint pen or handkerchief falling out of their pockets on their way to work or home. For a "whiner" it is a tragedy, a reason to complain about life.
He will read for a long time what a beautiful pen he had, how he valued it, how he will do without it at work, etc. Listening to him whine, someone will want to buy him the same ballpoint pen or another pen to finish his crying.
If you feel that you have the features of "chronic whining", "nerdiness", then urgently change. Otherwise, you will lose not only your best friend or friend, but also the desire of other people to communicate with you.
If the above character traits have prevailed over you, and you do not think to change, then you are an ill-bred person and extremely unpleasant to communicate.
- People don't like you - you are afraid of everything and panic.
Such people try not to miss any gossip, not a single message about the various cataclysms happening in the world and other horrors happening on our planet and in the universe.
You learn a lot from them: someone went on a diet, he or she was exhausted and it led to asthma, and excessive football - to cardiac arrest. They know all about terrorists, rapists, drug addicts, teenagers, etc.
Frequent communication with such a person can make it seem that nothing good happens in life, in our country, on our planet; the world is mired in darkness and chaos, in which only murders and violence take place.
If you feel that you have panic, try to change yourself. To be in company for a long time with such a person who has a gloomy, you can say - a negative attitude to everything that is happening in the world, no one wants to.
- People don't like you - the person who knows the answers to all the questions, the know-it-all
See a doctor. Why? After all, he knows almost everything about medicine, and medicine occupies a small niche in his knowledge.
He was invited to dinner. He rushes, but not to eat and thank the prudent owners, but to find flaws in the dish, to show how smart he is, falling asleep with advice to the mistress, how best to prepare the dish.
If he finds out that one of the neighbors bought a beautiful, expensive thing, he will immediately come to him and inform where to buy a better thing and several times cheaper.
If you find all of the above mentioned in your life, change immediately, otherwise you will become simply unbearable for everyone around you.
- People do not like you - you are too obtrusive.
Such an individual "hangs" bravely on the one who will be next to him when something happens: he has a headache, hit his leg, dropped glasses, someone looked at him obliquely and so on.
Sticky people demand such devotion from others, which is possible only if they are closely related. It is extremely difficult to get away from them. They don't just want the other person to know everything about their life, but also to live it. Every day he tries to describe to him in the smallest details, to share with him what he is going to do tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, etc.
In order to get away from this kind of clinging, you want to run away: to another city, in extreme cases, to another country, or even better - to hide in the universe.
If you feel that you have traits sticky urgently try to change. There is a limit to the amount of burden you can put on
- People don't like you, they're too critical...
A man like that has doubts about everything and everyone. If he or she is given a gift, such as leather gloves. He will be looking at them for a long time, and then he will say: "This is probably not leather, but leather substitute.
In a movie theater, no matter where he sits, he will be outraged that he is poorly visible and hard to hear.
Coming to the restaurant, he will study the menu for a long time, and when the order is brought, he will criticize the dishes in such a way that people around him will lose their appetite and the mood will deteriorate.
If you find such features in yourself, then urgently try to change. People will not want to communicate with you and have business with you, because you see in them only flaws. After all, you will not please, and whether they are obliged to please you.
- People don't like you - no sense of humor
Laughter for such a man is punishment. He's sitting there with a lot of laughter on his mind.
Besides, he asks for clarification of what is funny about what everybody has been laughing about for so long. When someone tries to make him laugh, he will be offended and leave.
If you realize that your sense of humor is sickening, try to change. Try to treat yourself and your actions with an acceptable degree of irony, and you do not suffer and others do not torture their boredom.