The union of people is stable and strong as a stone wall. Together they can not be broken.
Being one is when your souls are intertwined and you can no longer imagine your future without each other. The fear of separation seems to break everything from the inside and with a stiff pain brings the whole body.
Being one is when your friends and relatives are so used to seeing you together that when they see you separately, they are simply unaccustomed to.
You can quarrel over trifles or scandal to tears and tantrums. But you are one. You are together and this is your strength. Do not stop loving under any obstacles and circumstances, do not refuse each other. Do not stop your nightly heart-to-heart talk, walks in the park and simple calls with the banal "Hello, how are you?"
Being one is when you feel the pain of that person on yourself; you don’t need anything and nobody else when you are next to each other. You can just be silent and you are already calm and comfortable at home. Or talk on absolutely all topics and discuss anything: from weather forecasts to the dress you bought the day before yesterday. In any situation - you are well together.
Being one is not trying to correct, re-educate and change a person, just because it’s so convenient for you. It is to accept a person as a whole and completely no matter what he may be.
To be one is to solve everything together without any infringement of the rights and vote, regardless of gender.
To be one is to go to another city for work or study and feel this invisible thread that stretches between you; it can be stretched, but not torn. After all, you are one.
But between people there are different thoughts about love, that it is not eternal, feelings are all temporary, etc. In order to maintain one integrity with each other, you need patience, the most important thing in a relationship, mutual understanding, support in any situation, endurance of hysteria, tomfoolery, silly jokes. And it is very difficult to imagine life without these cases. It is with these that life is considered interesting. We just need to be able to let our soul mate out of the gates of the soul so that he or she can get to know that person even better, be closer to each other.
And we must forget the phrase: "My ideal will be like me." Your halves, your chosen ones do not have to be like you. After all, you need your ideal, and not a copy of your character, moods and expression. From ancient times it is said that basically our half is the opposite of our character. And this is precisely so that these two souls are united into one whole and complement each other.
There are people who live for years in the distance, but for some reasons maintain their relationship. In order to maintain integrity between the two souls, I would like to give some advice.
1️⃣If you have a long separation from a guy or a girl, sit down and talk honestly with each other. If this is not serious for you, it may be easier to part with a person before separation than to torment him with hope, and quit later. Tough, but fair.
2️⃣ Communicate as much as possible and more often. You must remain the closest people no matter what. You can watch a movie while talking on the phone while discussing it or go shopping at the store.
3️⃣Do not do surveillance on the Internet, that is, do not follow your partner on the Internet.
4️⃣ Use every opportunity to meet. Packing your bags, endless airports, train stations, waiting times for flights, how wonderful, romantic.
5️⃣ And remember, for the sake of what and for the sake of whom you put up with all this, the most important and necessary thing for everyone to know, to be patient, then you can maintain integrity between your loved one.