There are so many overweight girls and boys in their childhood/adolescence.
Therefore, this topic will be very popular for both teenagers and their parents.
In General, the theme of children and teenagers is very delicate and requires great responsibility in writing that just because they then will blame/make a complaint to someone who gave the same advice to do something or other.
Therefore, immediately say (and adolescents and their parents) to read and listen to anyone = can not. The Internet for the most part is just a fucking dump and most of the information in it is not worth a damn. All this is due to age, naivety, misunderstanding of many things, etc. it leads to the fact that teenagers just hurt themselves with their actions (violate their metabolism, worsen and disrupt digestion, there are gastritis, pancreatitis, kidney problems, skin, teeth, depression, weakness, apathy, in General, with the wrong actions suffer all the functions and systems of the human body) and all this for the sake of the desire of a teenager to lose weight.
Many parents are not aware (unfortunately) of the actions of their children, children and teenagers are afraid to talk about it with their parents or are embarrassed or do not want to strain or there is still something parents in General can themselves be Ala-wlasnymi that really do NOT make things up be like everyone else and eat what mom gives.Also, girls and boys can invent some of their methods for weight loss, engage in all sorts of nonsense (frankly), listen to their own kind of girls, boys and in the end what ?! What do most people eat? Dumplings. Sausages. Potato. Bread. Tortiks. Cookies. Sausage sandwiches. And on the thumb. In short, waste (no offense). As a result, we have what we have…
Unfortunately, it's terrible. Because education is a very serious topic that most people do not deal with. While the child grows parents have the opportunity to make all in the mind (correctly). To invest in child everything that will make it stronger/better/prisposoblenie to reality. I have repeatedly seen such situations when a boy or girl has already in childhood (not even adolescence) serious problems with excess weight (fat).
And parents at the same time: either do the same pigs either don't see / don't notice it and moreover, broadcast him/her that all he/she okay to eat son/baby)) you look good that you're starting, be like all of us, mom made you eat and don't excrete and so on. And there are situations (especially in girls) when you do not need to lose weight. No problem.
But! There are psychological problems, the boy is there some kind of language blurted out Hey that fat she is not beautiful and so on and the girl took it seriously and began to wind itself.
And as a consequence of this, the girl began to have problems in her head, she looks at herself there and Hey it seems that she is fat, but in fact it is likely that she has already dried up to impossible.
More shortly. You see what I mean? When the problem really is = we need to solve = no = means no. And so, if you need to lose weight…
Your task (if there is no help) to work he (a) himself.
It's your life and while you are little or small you still may not understand, but the responsibility for your life are you alone (a), and not your parents or is there someone…
We live in a very harsh world — where no one will feel sorry for you, no one gives a shit about you, no one needs you for fuck, everywhere there is fierce competition, the struggle for survival and victory in natural selection.
Parents, they're always... how do I explain this to you? They invest in their children a lot of resources, it's not just money, the mother bore you 9 months in the stomach, it was very hard, then she was with her father or she raised you, cared, fed, dressed, did not sleep at night, changed diapers, in short a million moments for a long time. When a person invests a BUNCH of RESOURCES and LONG into another person, that person is VERY VALUABLE. So valuable that parents are afraid of losing their children, afraid that something will happen to them, etc.
That's why most parents instill the habit of BEING LIKE EVERYONE else, do not stick out, do not take risks and so on. If you tell your mom I want to jump with a parachute = mom's eyes will pop out. You know why ?! So your task on their own deal with problem (but!!! attention: correctly deal, not so as most teenagers — not understanding-and only hurting).