Today we are celebrating children's holidays in specialized institutions, where you can use the services of animators and do not worry about the preparation of the holiday table.
However, one thing falls on our shoulders, namely, teaching our children to behave in public places. Etiquette for children attending cafes includes several important rules: the rules of conduct at the table, communication with peers and elders, cultural behavior in an unfamiliar place.
Etiquette rules for children: at the table
A child under 7-10 years old should not know what kind of knife they use to cut meat and what kind of knife they use to cut fish. Our goal is simple rules:
We need to. You can't.
- sit at the table tidy and clean; - eat while eating;
- Wash your hands before eating; - Lick your fingers;
- use a napkin; - pick your hands in the food;
- eat small pieces; - stuff your mouth with food;
- To start a meal together with everyone; - To put elbows on a table;
- Silence while chewing food; - Spit out food;
- Asking to pass on the dish you like; - Swinging on a chair;
- Thank the cooks, the owners - to fall apart at the table.
of the house, after the meal.
Among the people
Etiquette rules for children: among people
Even a preschooler can learn how to communicate beautifully and politely with peers and adults. It is best if parents pay attention to the feelings and emotions of others: "Do you think the girl liked that you pushed her? And if they pushed you? What is the right thing to do in this case?
It is necessary and impossible
- to get dressed up; - to interfere with the performance
of artists or animators;
- to come on time, not to be late; - to interrupt the interlocutors;
- Say hello to guests and presenters loudly; - Interrupt the conversation
between adults;
- bring a gift for the holiday to the birthday boy; - shout at the person;
- not to enter the banquet ; - to call names, tease, invent
hall in outerwear, the boy
- be friendly with everyone; - use parasitic words;
- Thank for the services ; - Make comments to adults,
hosts - for a warm welcome joke about them;
- If something needs to be asked, say "please"; - Without permission to touch
objects, spoil them;
- To address to adults on "you"; - To sit, having stuck in a tablet or phone;
- Apologize if you were wrong; - Shout and cry if you got the wrong gift,
the prize;
- to behave calmly and modestly, not to prank; - to be capricious and pull
parents home;
- to say goodbye when parting. - Tell the birthday boy that
you didn't like the party.
Children's etiquette rules: Decency rules
There are general rules of conduct that a child should be able to follow no matter where he or she is. In a crowded place, such as a cafe, ignoring these rules can cause unpleasant embarrassment. Although society is usually lenient about children's mistakes, the child may not feel comfortable with laughter or judgment.
So, you can't:
- to fight;
- to roll hysterics;
- to play with food;
- combing at the table;
- to correct things in front of all people;
- Blow your nose loudly, scratch your nose, touch the wounds, etc;
- Loudly asking to go to the toilet;
- Bring your toys, especially the big ones, to the cafe;
- Look closely at the people at the neighboring tables.
When and how to study?
Children are taught the rules not in the "field", when the guests have already gathered and the holiday has begun. It is best to do it at home, using the form of the game. Children love to practice different moments of behavior with the help of dolls, watch themed cartoons, read poems and fairy tales, play with peers "in adults", "in princesses and princes".
Get involved in the process and develop skills. And if the baby makes a mistake on the holiday, it is better to inform him about it tactfully in his ear. Or calmly talk about mistakes when you come home. Etiquette for children will become something important only when he is convinced of its importance on your example. Respect the little person and they will learn to respect others.