To be continued. The beginning of the previous part "How to marry your son (Part 1)"
2. Introducing our son to new girls
Gently offer your son of a girl to start a family, be a young man's acquaintance initiator. Have "random meetings" under good cause.
For example, ask a girl you know to bring your bags home and then treat her to tea. Adjust the meeting so that your son is definitely at home. If young people like each other, their relationship can go on to get married. The main thing here is not to impose and after your son meets the girl, they will not bring up the subject anymore, they will cope with it themselves and will tell you everything in time if you like each other.
You can also ask a girl you know to help you understand the computer or to help you learn how to cook an unusual new dish. Rarely can someone refuse such a simple and harmless request, especially if the girl herself is interested in arranging her future family life?
Try to organize your "lessons" so that your son is at home and close to you. If he asks why you didn't ask him for help, tell him you didn't want to distract him. After the "training", it is a good idea to invite a wonderful guest for tea or treat her to the resulting meal. Don't forget to invite your bachelor too. You can ask him or her to open a jar of jam or do something similar to make his or her participation in the tea party reasonable.
It is during the time of communication between young people that a cherished sparkle may burst out, which will unite their fates forever. During the conversation, it is not superfluous to praise the girl a little, to tell her about her excellent teaching skills, to invite her to come back for tea.
Before setting up a meeting, be sure to find out which girls he likes. There's no point in bringing a bluestocking or an unfettered sex bomb into the house if they're not the young man's type. Try to find out in advance, what kind of girls are interested in your son's appearance, with what style of behaviour. Do not rely on your taste, but on the preferences of your bachelor, you are the first to choose a woman for him, not for yourself.
3. We create the right psychological mood for your son
When you talk to your unmarried son, rarely mention how much you want to be a mother-in-law, how much you would like to get a good daughter-in-law. It's a kind of suggestion. Sometimes men are so focused on their careers that they just don't pay attention to their personal lives. There is nothing wrong with a mother asking her son to get married.
Such conversations do not look strange and out of line. Only they should not be in the form of tearful tirades and caustic remarks. "Everybody's been married for a long time, you're the only one who turns his nose around. "Aren't you able to find a normal girlfriend?" "I'm ashamed to look into my eyes because of you!" "Until when will you live alone?" Such sayings only turn your son against you. He can follow the principle of not creating a family at all. Forget these phrases and any reproaches, or you will lose the trust and respect of your child forever. Just say that you would like to have a big family, a grandson, a house full of children's laughter. Do not press, do not clutch your son in the grip of groundless accusations and tears.
Not all men want to get married. Some prefer to replace family life with hobbies, work, and entertainment. But family warmth is irreplaceable.
When a mother sees that her son is struggling with loneliness, she tries her best to find a decent couple for her child. There is nothing wrong with a mother helping her child in such a delicate matter. Just do not bend over the stick and persistently impose their son's tastes. Sometimes it is enough just to deprive him of his usual comfort zone or help him expand his circle of communication.
It often happens that it is mothers who introduce their son to his fate by inviting her to a cup of tea. And sometimes, if your son is wise and responsible enough, you just need to wait until your son chooses the best couple and gives you a beautiful daughter-in-law and grandchildren.
Happiness and kindness to you!