Hello, dear subscribers to my channel.
I don't think it's a secret that many girls spend a lot of time looking for a rich groom. The appearance on the horizon of a potential wealthy husband pushes the issue of feelings into the background. "Hang in there and fall in love" -they believe that marital happiness is directly proportional to the amount of money in the husband's wallet. However, at all times the statistics asserted the opposite - marriage by calculation more often brings a greedy lady and her loved ones more sorrows than joys.
Let's try to understand with you what problems a woman who married a rich and unloved man can face.
1. Sexual dissatisfaction
The first place psychologists put the dissatisfaction of such a woman in bed, as it manifests itself immediately, causing great damage to the female body and psyche, and over time it only increases. Even "playing in love", a woman can not protect herself from many diseases associated with sexual formation, both physiological and psychological. The body can not be deceived - subtle, sensual feminine nature for full pleasure and correct feelings need positive feelings, and in marriage, by calculation, they are only negative.
2. Love will not be - it is a tragedy for life
As banal as it may sound, love and understanding are not bought for money. Therefore, we will have to limit ourselves to buying dresses, jewellery and other things. But the desire to love and be loved by them will not diminish...
3. Loss of yourself
The risk of losing yourself in a relationship is very high, as you will have to try on the role of a wife who loves and respects her husband all the time, without actually experiencing anything like this. The farther the reality goes, the more it will diverge from its inner aspirations. And after a while, their desires and goals will simply be crushed by the forced game of someone else's life.
4. Nervous breakdown
Don't be deceived: even if you can easily pretend to be a loving and caring wife, sooner or later you can't avoid a nervous breakdown. At the most inopportune moment, when all the problems occur at once, all the accumulated will come out in the form of hysteria (at best), and even in the form of direct claims to her husband. And without that shaky relationship will give a big crack, which will be simply nothing to fix - love is not there.
5. Changes of the husband
A wealthy man who understands that his wife lives with him for money will sooner or later find a mistress on the side. And then the wife will have to accept the fact that she is not the only one with a "treasure", and secondly, she will have to compete with her competitor, wanting to preserve the husband's favour and not letting him go. And winning this battle with a young and energetic rival will be oh how difficult it is.
6. A growing desire to find a lover
It's hard not to look at young and ardent beauties next to an unloved and, moreover, elderly husband. However, the intrigues on the side end badly - when the husband learns about them, the rich life will end and even it will be possible to lose their livelihoods at all. And this is a new reason for fear and nervous tension.
7. A bird in a "golden cage"
Wealthy men are often very demanding on their wives, forbidding them to meet friends and pursue careers. For a freedom-loving woman, the prospect of staying at home all day, waiting for her husband from work, may seem intolerable. Yes, yes, this is the very "golden cage" that darkened the lives of lovers of wealth and luxury.
8. Poor and troubled children
A relationship for money is a very bad example for children. Seeing that mother and father do not love and respect each other, children will either repeat their behaviour in an enhanced form or close themselves off from their parents, rejecting life without love. In both cases, the children will be unhappy and will bring a lot of problems for the parents, which can't be solved with any money.
9. Lonely and sad old age
Children who have grown up without love and in the atmosphere of scandals will not love their mother and father. Very many elderly parents die alone, despite the children living nearby. And even if the children live together with their parents, the last days of the elderly will be filled with the most unpleasant attitude to them of their descendants. And it happens with both men and women.
10. Fear, fear, fear, fear...
All the above points lead to constant and growing fears in a woman's soul. Fear that you will fall off somewhere and play incorrectly, that the deception will be revealed, that the young mistress will take away the "prey", that you will fall ill or that your betrayal will become known to your husband. Constant fear of losing the "hard-earned" and remaining poor. Fear that such a life will continue for a long time and will gradually, from within, kill the soul. There are a lot of fears, and as the years go by they become more and more powerful. And in the end, they do kill a person.
Also, marriage to an unloved person can be not only unhappy but also fraught with many diseases such as hypertension, asthma, stomach ulcers and other ailments arising on nerve soil. And no expensive clinics will be able to cure a person who lives in constant stress and psychological discomfort.
Marriage is a very serious step, especially if it is a "marriage by chance". Not everyone will be able to compensate for many other needs, such as happiness, mutual understanding, love and self-fulfilment.
So, dear girls, think very carefully: is this the kind of life you want?
It's up to you to decide...
Take care of yourself.