First of all, it is worth noting that each family has its own ideas on how to properly settle the child to sleep. But still, psychologists say that there are certain concepts that can be traced in any cell of society. Therefore, this article is devoted to this topic.
There are a number of people who approve when a child sleeps in a parent's bed. There is even a scientific opinion that this is a child's need. And when he grows up and is ready for privacy, he will be able to ask for a personal corner. There are many reasons why such a decision is considered correct.
But not everyone agrees with this statement. And it is impossible to say that someone is right, and someone is not. In fact, it is necessary to build only on the nature of the child. If he easily endures falling asleep in his crib, it is worth taking this into account and allowing the baby to do it. It is impossible that maternal care has turned into excessive care.
The best solution will be if the child chooses how he feels comfortable. Yes, even babies have their own character and can show it in one way or another. It is worth listening carefully to the behavior of the baby. If some specific actions allow the child to fall asleep in a private bed, it is worth just doing them. This can be a quiet lullaby, calm voice of a mother reading a fairy tale or just "purring" some of the parents nearby. In any case, it is necessary to approach this issue consciously and not to press the child with their stereotypes.
Experienced psychologists recommend keeping a child's sleep diary for some time. It is impossible to remember all the details, but to write down the main thing in a notebook - it is a matter of five minutes. What exactly should I write there? Of course, the time when a child wakes up in the morning, what hours he sleeps in the afternoon, how many crumbs he falls asleep in the evening and how often he wakes up at night.
Such a cunning approach to planning personal time helps not only to paint an ideal time for settling the child in bed but also to distribute some personal responsibilities (cleaning, washing, etc.) without compromising the baby's sleep.
Statistics is a stubborn thing, so it is better to get acquainted with it as early as possible so that in the future there will be an opportunity not only to work but also to have a good rest. After all, when parents are tired, the child may be capricious, because subconsciously perceives everything. Even small details can become important in this matter, do not ignore them.