The punishment of a child is recognized as correct behavior for pedagogical purposes. But it is necessary to allow repressions only in case of acute need when persuasions and beliefs are not particularly effective. Punishment consists of some restriction of the rights of the little man, his removal from favorite games and other activities. For example, you can deprive your child of an expensive toy or detach him from watching cartoons on TV, strictly control his behavior or for a short time limit in sweets.
As a payment for the fault, the child can get a delay from the promised gift, a trip to the hike or the purchase of a long-awaited toy. Just do not need to categorically and completely cancel your commitments, they are only suspended until the correction of the circumstances that arise, depending on the behavior of the child. Otherwise, children will have distrusted to you as an honest and sword-bearer person. And this will only aggravate the situation and lower your authority in the family. The latter should be carefully avoided.
The most common way to punish a child is his or her moral disapproval, a vote of no confidence. Then the offender will begin to feel strong remorse and genuine shame for his transgression. Whatever the punishment you take on, now — here in the first place should not be threats and blackmail, and moral educational influence.
There is no need to intimidate the child or, worse, to influence him physically. In this case, you can cause harm to the child's body and psyche, thoroughly turn all family members against themselves. And this is unacceptable and very dangerous. After all, beatings only lead to fear and promises that will not be fulfilled in the future.
The child will beg for mercy, not because of the awareness of the transgression, but only to get rid of execution. Criminal liability may also arise. A more acceptable punishment for the guilty child will be a certain restraint in behavior, lack of familiar affection and coldness in the voice. Then the child will begin to think about his behavior and its results, to understand the motives that have led adults to rigor and anger.
This is stronger than just shouting or furious tirades. Even a simple and intimate conversation with children will set them up for cooperation without any penalties. Calmness and friendliness are important moments in the upbringing of their children.